If you dont mind me asking, how old were you when you had your first bf/gf? And how old were you when you lost you virginity, or if you are still a virgin, how old are you and are you happy/proud to still be a virgin? I really need some answers, if you dont ind telling me, I;m trying to decide if its the right time to...w/ my bf. we are almost 15.
2006-09-28 19:07:04 · 27 answers · asked by girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear 15,
True confessions time: I had my first girlfriend when I was 13 and I lost my virginity at 16. And believe it or not... my answer to your question will have little to do with religion...
I think you should not have sex right now. Over the years I've learned (through my own experiences and through counseling others) that sex is such an intimate experience because it's a bonding act. You make a connection with that person on a level that goes way beyond the physical pleasure. The problem with being 15 is that right now you don't know where life is going to take you... you have so many choices and options ahead of you... bonding with someone at this age - while enjoyable - will almost inevitbly lead to heartache because as you grow and mature, each of you will go through changes... and so even though you may feel that you are in love now... that may not be the case a year from now... or even a month from now...
My advice... take your time... there are plenty of ways to enjoy each other's company and companionship without jumping on that boat.
Best Wishes
2006-09-28 19:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rev T L Clark 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 20 years old 1st bf and 18 when i lost my virginity i say wait cause when i lost it it was a waste of time and every now and then i wish i still was and I'm 27 wait as long as u can and i feel if u have to ask if its time then your not ready yourself and that's whats important
2006-09-28 19:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by naughT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI my name is neeke i am 21 and i have 2 kids i didnt finish school and im just not getting my GED.I was13 when i left home and i left because of a boy i thought i loved but i didnt even know what it was.TO make a long story short i wish i could do it all over again and i would be 15 4 ever please even though i dont know u i care.I wish i had someone i could go 2 for answers but i didnt.The funny thing is i dont even remember the boys name.So to you young QUEEN i will say to u as i will say 2 my little girls when the time comes please enjoy your childhood as long as u can.Sex is always going 2 be arond theres no rush.Believe me enjoying life is most important luv u first.
2006-09-28 19:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by neeke 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got my first official boyfriend at 15.
I lost my virginity at 16.
I wish I hadnt lost my virginity soooo young.
Once you LOSE it you can NEVER have it back!
I encourage young people such as yourself to abstain from sexual activities until you are older in a mature relationship. Atleast wait until highschool is over. Do it now and you will regret it.. mayeb not the day after, maybe not even a year after.. but in the future.. you will wish you held onto it longer.
Best wishes and please make wise choices.
2006-09-28 20:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had ma 1st real bf when i wuz 12 ( i really started at 5yrs yes i wuz fast running in corners kissing boys ) and I'm 15 (i'll be 16 this feb 7th) and I'm still a virgin but i dont want to be one any more I'm ready ( or at least i think i am ) to share ma body with someone else. I've done a lot of naughty things and the deed never got done so now that I'm all hot a horny can i please find a love to give it up to. I'm not gonna give it up to just anyone. I'm not desperate!! I just ready ( or at least i think i am ) ok i'm confused now i dont know what i want!
2006-09-28 19:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Candice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with you!!! Dont have sex at 15!!!! Sex, just like everything else in life comes with consequences. And dont think that their arent women who get pregnant everyday in this world that "used a condom" or are on birth control. Im sure there are several other ways you 2 can express your lust for each other. Just stop and think for a minute what would the rest of your life be like if you got pregnant.
2006-09-28 19:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by bsd300d 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 14 when i had my first boyfriend, and i was 15 when i lost my virginity to him!! If you are thinking about giving away your virginity PLEASE make sure you know you are doing it with the RIGHT person, Because once you do this you can never take it back!! And also PLEASE protect yourself against disease and pregnancy that's the last thing you need......all in all make sure this is really what YOU want and that the other person really cares about you!!!
Good Luck Hun!!
2006-09-28 19:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first boyfriend when I was around 7 or 8. I choose to have sex for the first time when I was 16 and I wish I had waited until I was mentally mature.
2006-09-28 19:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first real boyfriend I was 15yrs.old/and 17 when I lost my virginity. You're young wait a few years.
2006-09-28 19:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Grazia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my first bf when i was 13 i lost my virginity when i was 15 to a guy who took advantage of me at a party when i was wasted......wait! i wish i was still a virgin...u cant ever get it back
2006-09-28 19:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋