i have 3 young boys who i love dearly but was desperate for a girl. I can't seem to get over it and am very depressed and angry
2006-09-28 17:16:09 · 16 answers · asked by fiona e 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
you should be thankful you have 3 healthy children, count your blessings
2006-09-28 17:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Heather H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try a book called How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby.
It explains that it's all in the timing. Basically the sperm that make boy babies swim fast but don't live very long. The sperm that make girl babies swim slower but live longer. I can't remember exactly but I think if you want a girl you're supposed to have lots of sex at the beginning of your cycle then STOP 3 days before you are due to ovulate. By the time the egg is available to be fertilised the boy sperm will have died off and only the girl sperm will make it.
The part about the boy sperm swimming faster/living longer is actual scientific fact although I suppose that still can't guarantee 100% success. But I used the book wanting a boy and my friend wanted a girl and we both got what we were hoping for.
2006-09-29 20:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be desperate anymore. There is a method , the only one to obtain a thousand by thousand safety degree in results, in order to beget a son or a daughter. It is the universal law by which Nature keeps under control the demographical balance between genders, all over the world and in all the species. So, there's nothing more natural than this, and easy and FREE. Go to hijosalacarta.tripod.com website English section (it means "children by menu"). It is the latest scientific discover. Try it and go ahead to have and enjoy your baby boy or girl as your choice may be. Good luck.
2006-09-29 04:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by scan0432 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have 2 girls and 1 boy and he is dying for another brother. His name is Cody. The 2 girls are Diana and Chelsie. Cody is just going to have to deal with what i had. You tell them that to. Even though Cody hates the girls. He wants a boy. He wants to name another boy Jack. But i said no. Because im not having anymore. Sometimes life just isnt fair. Yes you want them happy but sometimes things cant be done.
2006-10-06 10:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by GorgeousGal10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had two boys and when we tried again i read that if you have sex three days before you ovulate you are more likely to have a girl as girl sperm swim slower well when i feel pregnant i hated the thought that i may be having another boy but towards the end i had chosen boys names and was convinced i was having another boy but i had a girl and i thank that article every time i look at her good luck it may work for you too
2006-10-06 12:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by KEL B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best bet is just get over it I wanted a girl to but had 3 boy's and I figure if God wanted me to have a girl he would have given me a girl maybe your not the right type of person to raise a girl maybe your better off with boy's God must think you are special to have some many men in your life loving you
2006-10-06 08:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by Josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend has 4 boys and she was always desperate for a little girl, imagine her delight when her 5th baby last year was a little girl.
im not saying you should keep going until you get a daughter, but every once in a while we all get "little miracles" and if it can happen for my friend, im sure one day it will happen for you.
good luck babes
2006-10-03 20:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by dopeydora2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could slap your husband since he determines the sex of your children, and just dress one of your boys in a dress n wig n you got yourself a girl!!! I really am joking.When they grow up they will have girlfriend and someday a wife and you will have a daughter in law.
2006-09-28 17:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by mommyofsix 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can vouch for Nicky K's answer about the Chinese calendar...whilst probably not scientific, it definitely worked for me and I have a baby girl!
2006-09-29 14:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by ladypeonie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be thankful you have 3 healthy boys
2006-10-01 04:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be happy that you even have children. Some people out there don't even have children to love, or love them back.
2006-10-06 15:47:47 · answer #11 · answered by Ronda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋