My bf has to move away for a year to Louisiana and I'm so sad cuz he wont be back home till a year...WHAT SHOULD I DO?! I dont wanna break up with him cuz we're really close...so it's tuff....T_T
2006-09-28 16:47:42 · 9 answers · asked by La Reina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends... on a LOT of factors. If you're truely close and a friendship will be possible then by all means go for it and enjoy your long distance relationship. I lasted in a 3 year relationship when nearly 2 and a half of those years were long distance. Most of the time I did not get to talk to him on a daily basis. We were 2 years apart and he was off to college. If you believe it is love and then there is no point in trying to break it off to spare yourselves any kind of pain in the long run. There will always be hurt when someone you care about and are that close to leaves. If you think about it, a year is not a relatively long time, if you talk daily or even write to each other daily that is a good continuance... a lot of the time you may worry that he is not faithful or doesnt want to last but that is when honest and open communication is the most important... if you dont have a strong level of communication and the relationship is mostly superficial or physical then you will find this out within a month of him being gone. Best of luck to you, hope all things go well.
2006-09-28 17:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the place to commence...i would be unable to have self assurance there are a great style of adult men like this accessible! besides... at first - cheaters who sell off on their considerable others basically do it because of the fact they are able to not handle the guilt. so they sell off their guilt on you and make you sense like **** so as that they are able to sense extra valuable approximately what they did because of the fact they have been trustworthy with you approximately it. (after the fact) You suggested he reported that no thoughts have been in contact for the time of his "cheating". Has he ever seen your thoughts?? He says he has a comfortable sexual addiction? Translation - it rather is his excuse for cheating. What guy would not have a sexual addiction? this provides him an excuse for any destiny cheating that would ensue. Making is seem as though a ailment makes you sympathetic in the direction of him rather of down good annoyed! you surely would desire to circulate with your gut in this one. i think of your head is interior the superb place. are you able to truly ever have confidence this guy ever back? i think of after the 1st cheating occasion that have confidence in simple terms can't be repaired. Been there and achieved that...its ineffective. circulate on. you would be happier interior the top. attempt to not get wrapped up interior the fantasy of your being "meant to be collectively" in simple terms considering the fact which you surpassed off to be interior an identical place on an identical time. which potential not something different than a great twist of fate.
2016-10-15 08:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh! how sad. anyway if you both have strong feelings for each other, a year should be alright. my ex bf (my high school sweetheart) moved to Italy after graduated high school and we broke up. he went there forever. it took me a year to forget him. you should be lucky that he's only away for a year and still here in the US.
2006-09-28 16:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sweet. Have faith in him. Say, "see you when you get back lover and have a great time missing me." Don't make him miserable before he even gets there. What kind of supportive girlfriend does that? ^_^ Good luck.
2006-09-28 16:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's how i lost my ex :( he had to move, and he said he'll be back next summer, but there was no way to keep a long distance relationship. it never works out
2006-09-28 16:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, IF YOU DON'T WANT TO BREAK UP WITH HIM, STAY IN TOUCH! CALL HIM EVERYDAY.JUST KNOW IN A YEAR OR SOONER HE WILL CAME BACK. DON'T THROW AWAY YOUR RELATIONSHIP. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-28 16:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break up..just keep in touch..via phone or email
2006-09-28 16:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by yeaa, thats her.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Do It.
Nike.
2006-09-28 17:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write to him and if he writes back then you will be even closer when he gets back!
2006-09-28 16:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋