i broke up with my girlfriend months ago.. and now i don't seem to have an appetite on moving on with women.
i kinda like someone right now but i just can't express it the way i can before.. why?
i need advice..
2006-09-28 16:46:55 · 14 answers · asked by m_a_a_s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not easy to forget someone... especially some1 you really love... I believe u love this girl alot and had give out alot of love to her. so it's quite normal about no appetite or what... give yourself more time over it... be single for sometime till you really can cope your feeling...before proceeding on to woo other girls or what.... it's fair for yourself and for others too....
2006-09-28 16:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need more time. If you were very involved in your last relationship, then it is not just that easy to pick up and move on. It is okay to be by yourself. You do not have to have a girlfriend. Just have some fun and do not be too serious. When you find the real thing you will know. And then you will have no problems expressing yourself.
2006-09-28 16:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are not ready for a relationship right now. Give yourself some time to get over things. You may think you are over her, but you must not be. Your mixed emotions you are feeling are normal, you want the companionship again, but at the same time you can't seem to express yourself. Don't worry too much about it. You'll know when the time is right again for you.
2006-09-28 16:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dewdrop5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i broke up with my first boyfriend, i felt like nothing would possibly work out if it couldnt have worked out between my first boyfriend. i thought we were going to get married and have kids! it was just so devistating to be proved wrong like that when you were once so sure. i think you're probably feeling the same way. just give it awhile, dont rush into a new relationship. the feeling will fade away.
2006-09-28 16:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you cared a lot more for her than you thought? Or you might be trying to date too soon afterwards, it takes us all different amounts of time to heal. Think carefully, how do you feel about her? If you didn't care, why the problems with new women?
2006-09-28 16:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a bad relationship or a bad break up, you might just need a little more time to move on. Or, if you loved her alot, you may just need more time to heal. Don't be too hard on yourself, we all go through rough times after a break up.
2006-09-28 16:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it some time although you broke up with her deep down you still may have hidden feelings for her...do you find your self thinking aboout her or the things you use to do..try going out on a date with your ex see if that helps
2006-09-28 16:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by little_outlaw_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just snake bit at the moment....give it a little time--but some girl will strike your fancy again!
Guys like to pile stuff like this up cuz we for the most part don't talk about this stuff. Whereas girls talk about nothing else but feelings!
2006-09-28 16:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same boat...juz tht i'm female and 3 yrs after breakup...
told myself i've moved on...
but right now...still swinging single...
guess it is really about having that optimism to go out and interact like friends before deciding to go further...
2006-09-28 16:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by juz_moi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell you liked your ex very much. dont race for it, give your self time to adjust, then you can ask your friend but only when you are ready!
2006-09-28 16:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by teehee311 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋