I love my boyfriend very much, but for some reason I can't help but get the feeling he's only using me for my body. I mean, every single time I try and tell him no he trys harder and then, if I don't give in, he goes on this whole guilt thing and he feels horrible...Making ME feel horrible. I don't want him to keep blaming himself because he knows he shouldn't push me and he just feels horrible that he even tried. But also, he's a little suicidal and it scares me when he gets sad because I don't want him to go out and kill himself just because I didn't let him do something.
2006-09-28 16:41:42 · 16 answers · asked by ♪♫ Sara ♪♫♪ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its sounds to me that the threatning suicide is just an attention getter. Most people that treaten suicide just want some help and attention but really dont want to kill themselves. But then again I dont know your boyfriend so dont take this answer too seriously. Anybody that treatens suicide should get professional help. And you need to think if you really want to put up with this forever!!.
2006-09-28 16:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by ParamedicFireman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appears like a very complicated challenge. As a lot of an interest seeker and lunatic as she is, try no longer to be too problematic on her, cut back her some slack. If her mum and dad and persons already understand, then the duty is with them, it really isn't any longer something you're responsible for. i imagine the suitable element you 2 can do is only have persistence with her and stay open as acquaintances, yet do not enable her administration you with those video games. Eg at the same time as she's threatening suicide, say that concerns you and also you want she would not say that, yet it really is something only she will be able to make your ideas up and do. even at the same time as she's a *****, attempting to thieve your boyfriend, and performing unusually, try no longer to react to harshly, she of route has issues, no matter if she is only declaring this stuff and would not advise it, it really is an issue.
2016-11-25 01:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be hard to accept, but he is using you and manipulating you. He asks for sex, you say no. He tries to convince you to say yes, and when he cannot get his way he totally ignores yours feelings and your right to say no, and continues to abuse you by trying to make you feel guilty because he knows he is wrong. Then, in order to keep you in this sick relationship, he threatens suicide. Oh, this is so wrong ....please get away as fast as you can and do not look back. If he tries playing the suicide game, call 911. Show him you will not be manipulated anymore. Get an order of protection if you have to, he needs way more help than you could ever offer him. good luck.
2006-09-28 16:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is scamming you out of sex. If he is really suicidal, get a way from him. For some reason a lot of men who are suicidal will take the woman with him i.e. murder her and then kill himself. very dangerous for you.
2006-09-28 16:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's absurb. Your boyfriend needs to get some therapy if he is so depressed. He is not going to kill himself just because you don't give him a piece of ***. What he is doing is called a guilt trip and men a very very good at it.
2006-09-28 16:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get him the number to the suicide hot line or pschy ward and move on. There is no need for him to put you though misery.
2006-09-29 04:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by Drojan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to go for counseling, whether or not he really is suicidal. In the meantime, you should stop dating him. You should not be doing things you don't want just because you fear for his safety.
2006-09-28 16:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow your in big trouble, and you need to get out fast. This happen to me about five years ago, he said he was going to kill himself if he couldn't have me. I was so scard but my parents made sure he couldn't see me anymore. Then we nevered talked again, i see him sometimes, and we just say hello and that's it.
2006-09-28 16:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by cassie05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tries to kill himself because you will not sleep with him, he has some serious issues and you need to leave NOW....
2006-09-28 16:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Faith In The House 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They guy is an a**hole, trying to make you feel bad about not wanting to do something is not cool at all, get rid of him and find someone who respects you and your feelings about what you feel comfortable doing and what you dont
2006-09-28 16:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋