I am totally in love with my boyfriend of 1 and half months but still like to perve (for sum reason) he thinks that he's losing me and i don't know what to say he hasn't called me or anything over these holidays and usually calls me every 2 hrs just to see that i'm allright whats going on?
2006-09-28 16:29:27 · 11 answers · asked by Sad 'n' Sorry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not that young i'm 22
2006-09-28 16:36:32 · update #1
Perve means Check out the opposite sex
2006-09-28 16:40:09 · update #2
You've been going out for 1.5 months.
You're not in love.
2006-09-28 16:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Blalalalal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to put your feelings down, but it is hard to say that you love someone after that short of a period of time. You are probably lucky that your guy hasn't run away screaming knowing that fact.
What is "perve"??
If he thinks that he is losing you, you need to make it clear to him that he is not. If this "perve" thing is what's causing his feelings, don't do it - simple as that. And don't think that he needs to do all the calling - you can call him too and make the plans for the date or whatever. Honestly, calling you that often isn't healthy for the relationship anyway. I mean, you like it now because it really is a sweet thing to do (don't get me wrong), but it has the potential to become a problem - it may lead to him being paranoid and maybe even trying to control what you do and when. I know that sounds a little extreme, but it definitely can happen.
One of the most important things in any relationship is communication. You need to talk it out with him and both of you need to get your feelings out (good and bad) and straighten everything out.
2006-09-28 16:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy he's not calling you every 2 hours... that's a little much and it sounds like he didn't trust you. If he's not calling you... call him... the phone works both ways. 1.5 months is not a long time to be in a relationship. Frankly, it sounds like you're young and you shouldn't be in a long relationship anyways. You should be dating a bunch of guys and having a great time meeting new people.
2006-09-28 16:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st......if you have been dating a whopping 6 weeks.....wise up.......its not love. 2nd...is HE the one thinking he is losing you? Or do YOU think you are losing him? If he's not calling you it surely doesnt sound to me like he feels he is losing you.........its sounds to me like he is not interested in you. If he calls you every 2 hours to see if you are allright........ummm thats a problem in ANY relationship...
Sorry dear, but this sounds way too immature to me. You need to figure out what real true love is v.s. infatuation. He's flown in and out of your life.
Good luck........and besides............what does "perve" mean?
2006-09-28 16:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him and ask him to come over or meet you some where so you guys can talk. ask him what he is feeling but don't get mad or upset just stay calm and talk about it. oh and don't listen to anyone who says you cant be in love with someone after only 1.5 months. i met a guy when i was 15 and knew i loved him after 3 weeks and now we are married and couldn't be happier
2006-09-28 16:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called lust and it's all new and exciting until the chemicals in your brain that make you think your in love wear off. Slow down. Him calling u every two hours won't last very long unfortunately
2006-09-28 16:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can find out is asking him yourself. Go up to him, call him, or text him and bring up on how you feel about his treatment toward you, and ask him what's up in his life (in a nice way.). Be nice, and tender when you talk to him, and eventually he'll let it all out.
2006-09-28 16:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee you have one mo and a half and your in love . and he use to call you every 2 hrs. it sounds like something i would find relief in a break......................i think things are moving abit fast and back off a bit as your wearin me out .....
2006-09-28 16:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a month and a half is'nt true love.. sometimes kife slips crushes in here and there just to occupy our minds.
2006-09-28 16:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by yahbonez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has enough of you - you are done. Get new object for experience.
2006-09-28 16:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋