i am obsessed with mature women(between 29-37 years old) in shape. i am 19 years?

Question

old..do you think i have a mental problem...?

Answer 1

It's very common for younger men to fantasize about older women.
Probably because all the women so far in his life are older, like best friends mom's, teachers, neighbors, aunts , etc
Most boy's and men ,young and old either have or have had an attraction to an older woman.
Young girls are beautiful , hard bodies, unscarred and slender as a rule, supposedly untainted but they are just that, young, with out the experience or time enough to develop and feel comfortable with or even begin to know who and what they are about, they are nervous just as you when attempting to communicate and make a good impression without rejection just as you , but then they seem to mature at a quicker pace physically and gravitate towards boys a few years older. Girls dont usually find mature men attractive until she becomes fed up with the drama of a young man. Males are attracted more for the sexual aspect in intensity while girls are too but get to that in a different way , for us to derive as much satisfaction we look for security, and the romance first, the rituals. A boy or young man has one huge distraction,(his sex drive) and even though he may have a good solid family background and values to refer to , nature still has him literally "driven" by his sex drive. It's interesting too that a woman doesnt really hit her prime or high sex drive untill her 30's or 40's after she has had her children , it is like a reward for her. who else is a better match then a young man in his prime, where she is able to teach him the things that will make him a good lover, what he learns he takes to his marraige and hopefully will have this awareness to share with his wife who is young and unless she has coupled with an older man will still be an unaware and unskilled lover.If a girls drive was as strong as a young mans during the early years then we'd all be in trouble, she is more reserved for a reason, she has kids to put first which is why she'll lose a lot of her energy and drive after the kids are born, if she didnt sh'e be running around like the guys and potentially neglecting the kids., as I said before as she gets older and learns about her body and her husband and her have years of experience and hopefully a wide variety of things between them she finally reaps the best of her sexuality, she has a very sensuous appeal to her and she knows how to use what she has to please you and herself.by a young man having desire for her it is very empowering and complimentary to her esteem, since she now feels like she may have lost her youth and time is running short for her to feel sexy and beautiful.
it's scary for a woman to leave her youth behind and prepare for middle age or elderly years.so for a few years this woman in her late 30's but more so in her forties, has an extremely attractive compelling aura to her, Then there is the young virile
man who is at his best and hungry for more , the young women play games they , tease they torment and get headaches at the end of the night, she is not impressed she has 100 guys willing to jump if she asks so you seek a woman , and this begins as you become sexually aware and all the women around you are mature women. Our cultures have different ways of dealing with it, even though most of us do it at least once, everyone claims they don't since it's kind of taboo, kind of. most of society is hypocritical when it comes to sex and desire. the ones who rant the most are the ones who fear thier sexuality the most, because it is in all of us, but strong religious backgrounds play a big part in people getting stuck and in controversy, so they pretend. They fool no one and only sell themselves short on the good things ion life but, it's hard to shake it until you are older and more comfortable, One reason is, that often People are married and have no buisness screwing around with another lover period , this is one reason it's lied about . and secretive , a non-maried person will be more honest about their sexuality unless they are afraid to be themselves around people they feel they need to impress like their social circles. Dont let the world fool you, all of us have fantasy's and much more devient then being attracted to an older woman, Any body who says you are sick or need help is
telling you something they shouldnt be, and it'll be the same ones that'll tell you that they dont masterbate either.
anyway , whether or not you decide to act on your fantasy or just nurture it over the years it's ok, just be safe, and at least go for a single mature woman or "milf" as the nickname goes,and try to stay away from married ladies. Whatever comes natural and doesnt hurt anyone is really ok and it's healthier not to fear it.

ps as long as you are not thinking about young girls (minors) then you are ok.

Answer 2

Well, for one, it's not illegal for a 29 year old to date a 19 year old. According to the law, it's not immoral. Although, people may have something negative to say about the situation. Personally, I see no problem with it. For example, a 29 year old man can date a 19 year old girl and nobody will object. The way I see it, age doesn't matter when it comes to love. Maturity does matter though....

Answer 3

I miss the days when I thought of people between the ages of 29-37 old. No, you dont have mental problems. I'm 36 and although Ive had a nice body my whole life, it only seems to be getting better in certain ways. I'm sure she's hot as hell and I'm sure any 19 yr old would think the same of me.

Answer 4

No, you don't have a mental problem. Many guys your age have a thing for the older woman. Maybe because you like the fact that an older woman has more to offer and she's been through basically everything you're going through. Plus you may find it more sexy, which is totally fine. As many guys like the older woman, the older woman likes the younger guys. Usually the younger guy wants to have sex with the older woman because they think they're more mature and wild, lol, and the older woman wants to be with the younger guy in a sexual relationship, because she's looking for someone who can bring out a wild side in her too and make her feel young again. I'm just going by a conversation I had with a woman friend, because she found a younger man attractive, but she thought she was sick for liking him. Hey, to each their own. Now this brings me to my question....Obsessed? Now if you're waiting outside her house, following her around and trying to catch a whiff of her perfume, YEAH, you're crazy. Maybe you used the wrong word, maybe you meant attracted..???

Answer 5

No, you don't have mental problems. I'm 14 and I only find attraction in guys that are 18-31 years old.

Answer 6

I can answer your question. I'm a39 year old mom : )
A women who is in her mid 30's is equivalent to a18 year old boy is this way. We are very sexual. Where boys are very sexual active at 18 women are at that same peek at 38. We don't want headaches or drama just sex sex then more sex. So it's natural for a young man to be attractive to a women who is on board with what he wants. Have fun it's ok. By the time your pay 25 you'll be looking for women your own age.

Answer 7

When you say obsessed are you meaning you want to park a van in an abandon parking lot and wait for the women in your criteria to happen by and force them into the back of your van?.......if so then yes........we WILL go with mental problem.

Answer 8

no i'm 24 and love 35 to 45 year olds. it is just a matter of preference.

Answer 9

Have you actually dated one in this age range or are you obsessed from afar? I dated an older girl once & it was akward in public.

Answer 10

no, but keep in mind if you keep with your age gap they will look 10 plus yrs and look like your dating your mother or something . maybe you like the fact their more settled and find them easy to talk with more than someone your age.