He's this prep-ish football player..he's really hott..and I mean, I've gone out with hott guys before..but they're always just so shallow and dumb and just want some ***. He's so different from any guy I've ever known. He's smart, he's got a great sense of humor, and he's not shallow. Plus he's really hott. He's like...perfect. He turns down every prep that asks him out (which are a lot.), and I'm not a prep or anything..it just seems like preps should date preps--he doesn't. But I don't know how I would even talk to him. He just seems like he's off-limits. Like if I even tried to talk to him the world would collapse in laughter. I just don't know what to do. I don't want him thinking I'm some stalker chick, cause I always stare at him, but I've just never liked someone this much without being in love before. It's impossible to take my eyes off of him. And I catch him staring at me too, but I just don't know if I'm making something more out of something petty? Someone help me, please
2006-09-28 16:07:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Problem is...
He's got a girlfriend, and she's beautiful.
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2006-09-28 16:12:34 · update #1
U can try by joining the same club, association group with him. then, u can take time to observe him n discover whether if he is all that u think he is... during the activities, try say hi n introduce urself n be a fren.
Next time, u can try chat with him n try find out more about him like wat his passion- study, football or any favourite girl? Then, u can try ask him to help out with something like assignment etc...
well, tat's the basic guidelines.
U can spice it up with ur personal charms but dun dress up too exquisitely. Just be down to earth in the beginning unless his taste is exquisite too he he..
Wish u true love..
2006-09-28 16:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by fify 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably just being friendly ( he has a girlfriend and she is beautiful remember) he is not shallow so he does not want to piss you off or let you think he is rude, but initially he does not feel the same way, and you could not say you are already in love just by this evidence, if you are really in love you would know what to do.
personally eventhough he is staring back at you , it might just be your imagination, or that he is just wondering why you are always staring
he does not even call you, or did not even do anything that would make me believe he feels the same way,,,look around you , youre too focused and centered on him that maybe you dont see the other man who loves you better.
2006-09-28 23:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really already had a gf,plz stay away from him.it/s not wrong if u still want him but u can only be a friend.not more than that.plz be pity wth his gf.u cant take other's.u imagine if ur bf taken by other girl.how do u feel?i think u juz can be his besfriend.if he break up with his gf,its ur chance.but make sure that the breaking is not bcoz of u...or u will feel the same thing when he leaves u for other girl..
2006-09-28 23:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there before.Of course this guy I liked was like 6 ft 4 and ended up dating this girl who was like 4ft 3 and I was like wtf!!I never talked to him and I was so love sick over him,he was sooooooo Ect. hot!I ran in to him like 5 yrs later he was working in a dollar store and had gained a tun of weight and just wasn't that same hot guy I once new. My advice is if you really like him go for it, talk to him cause in the long run if god dosn't think he is right for you,well you know the song *unansered prayers* go with that. good luck!
2006-09-28 23:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should introduce yourself and if he is not interested may not necessarily mean he is Gay! Stick around for a while you never know when they"ll break up, then you might have a chance.
2006-09-28 23:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ladyshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and introduce yourself.....
2006-09-28 23:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may prefer men.
2006-09-28 23:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get him... pleazzz
2006-09-28 23:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋