should i continue hoping, is this worth it?

Question

i really really have a crush on this guy, i dont really know who he is he is a complete stranger,but i feel as though i am complete when i see him and that i have a reason to smile.
but i know he will never notice that, we see each other everyday but we never had a chance to talk, he looks at my way sometimes and he always seems to be waiting for someone who does not come, i was kind of hoping he is waiting for me but that would be too much to ask
do you think that i should continue having this feelings or should i just forget all of this, because for all i know he does not notice me at all.
if i should forget him can you give me some tips how?
or should i still hope that he will notice or talk to me,
its really weird cause i often see him in my dreams, and that i can guess the colour of his shirt the next day before he even wears it
he really makes me feel complete
but then i just feel like i should stop this madness
am i mad?

Answer 1

No, you are not mad but you have a heck of a big crush going on. It is going on and on almost to obsessed so I think you should give it a try or two to make or break it. First I would try to keep in mind that you do not yet know him so it is unfair to feel like he makes you complete-whoa girl. Maybe he is a dream come true, maybe, but wait to know him at least before you start telling yourself that he walks on water or knocks your socks off. You may just get to know him and find he is your worst nightmare and someone you wish you would have never met.
Since he has not come up to you to talk there is only one other way to try to find out. The next time you see him, you go up to him and start a short conversation. You might leave your watch at home and tell him you don't have it with you so you wonder if he can tell you what time it is-something. After he does or can't you could mention that you have seen him wherever this is you see him at before and ask a question about the place. From there you will either be on your way to friendship-or maybe more or if he has no interest he will not encourage any further conversations and you should forget about him. How? Start by not hanging out where he goes anymore. Continue by making other friends and in no time you will have a life that is not filled only by thoughts of him. I hope though that he is someone special who will once the ice is broken, pursue you but if he does not, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

Answer 2

Well hun it sounds like a crush to me. How old are you? if you are young then it will pass. If you feel that strongly about him them make a move. Talk to him about anything and see what happens. What have you got to lose. Talk about something simple and go from there. Maybe he feels the same way you do and like you does not know what to do. It is worth a try. If the conversation goes nowhere and he closes the book you will know and then you can move on being mad at him and it will make the hurt easier to take.

Answer 3

Haha, I actually know what you're talking about. I know it's hard to fathom (I don't actually have the nerve to do it myself) but you should make the first move. Just go up to him and say hi and start up a conversation, or if you have to, think of something to say to him...like if you see him at school, talk about an assignment or teacher, or if you see him where he works, ask him something about the workplace, then introduce yourself and strike up some conversation. Since you guys have nothing, you have nothing to lose...and if it turns out he's not really into you (and it was your imagination), then at least you'll have tried. No, you're not mad =)

Answer 4

Been there, done that. You won't be able to forget him just by trying to forget him, he's in your blood, girl.

Say hello to him, anything beats the torture you are going through by not knowing more about him. He might break the spell when he opens his mouth and you find out he has the IQ of a rock or something. Once you have more information either way, you will be able to move on.

Answer 5

Take the initiative. Maybe he's interested in you too, otherwise he wun look your way. Maybe he's just shy and waiting for an opportunity to ask you out.

But dun way too long, you never know when there's another gal going to make a move first.

It's 21st century, go for it! Ask him out, or at the very least strike up a conversation with him.

Answer 6

Sweetie,Me and my late husband where alot like u are.we where infatuated with each other.We never thought the other would be interested.And then one day just struck up a conversation and that was it we where together till the end.Just take a chance and walk up and say hi and talk about whatever is going on around u guys and go from there.

Answer 7

No you are not mad or crazy some times dreams come true-flirt a little what do you have to lose- at least smile accidentally bump into him or say hello or something-what if he were dreaming about you to and just could not find you! Either way don't worry about it!

Answer 8

so sweet yar...he's so lucky bcoz has a die hard fun like u.hoping n hoping doesnt work dear.u must tell him ur feeling.if u r too shy to start it,u can start as afriend.get to know him better.maybe he's really waiting for u,who know yar...if u really like him,plz do something.plz dont let the chance go juz like that.its ok if girl start first in making relationship.u must confident with urself n do da bset to make sure that u will win his heart...foreva...

Answer 9

what you're experiencing is called infatuation.

no, you are not mad, but perhaps you are madly in love with a guy you may never come close to or even know his name.

i remember when i was in high school there was a guy i felt similarly about. i dreamed about him, and one day, he brought his guitar to school. he was sitting at the top of the stairs, playing his guitar over the lunch hour, and from the bottom of the stairs, i knew it was him. i didn't even know he played the guitar; i just knew there was no one else in the school who could play music that drew me towards its sound the way he did.

then one day, his girlfriend came to the school. i knew who she was immediately. no other guy in the school would have had her for a girlfriend.

back to you:
there is no harm in saying "hi" to your mystery guy, and no harm in being in love from afar either.

but be realistic. don't set yourself up for disappointment. becoming so preoccupied with a stranger could hold you back from getting to know other guys who may truly have dating potential.

Keep it Real, love the zangy twists of every day, and SmILe! :)

Answer 10

Does he look at you when you look at him, does he give you a look that maybe, perhaps you should try to talk to him because he too is shy and may want to talk to you as badly?

If he is what you think he is, if you know him they best way, then you have nothing holding you back. Build up the courage to walk over to him and talk to him....... it'll be worth it.

I wish you all the best.