When we first started going out I would call her everyday and leave her emails for when she checked her mail every night. And I would do romantic things. But now its been 8 months and I just dont feel like it anymore but she nags me about cuz her friends bf is all romantic and crap I told her its cuz their relationship is still new. So what should I do?
2006-09-28 15:34:39 · 22 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Memorize several Shakespeare sonnets and spring them on her as if you wrote them.
Buy her some flowers a couple of times.
Cook dinner for her.
Watch some old Cary Grant movies with her, especially, "the Awful Truth," "My Favorite Wife," "Arsenic and Old Lace" and "Monkey Business." The two of you need to laugh more.
Do whatever you can to keep her away from the mouse pack and from comparing notes with other chix about how warm and fuzzy their boyfriends are. Chat like that is poison!
2006-09-28 15:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what being romantic is not hard to do unless you do not care about her. Why can't you email her every once in awhile. Send her flowers just because. Go do something that you 2 use to do. That is the problem with most men they get the girl and the air leaves the balloon. You do not have to do as much as you use to but doing alittle would be nice every once in awhile. Here's and idea. Ask her what she wants to do this weekend. When you love or care about someone these things should come to you very easy. What if we never cooked for you? we never cleaned the house? Never wanted to do anything? all we wanted to do was watch t.v. and sleep all day. Just think about her instead of you and you will find something that will keep the fire going.
2006-09-28 15:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are u bored with her? I mean u need to tell her your true feelings, dont beat around the bush and make her think u still like her if u dont and if u do still like her the same way as u did when u first met then do small things for her. I have been in relationships and when the guy dont do anything to acknowledge that I exist than I know something is wrong. My best friend and I have known each other for 7 years and he lived in another country and he emailed me each day for or at least every other day for 6 years. Now he is in the states for the past year he calls me each day more than twice a day, sends me emails just to see how I am, sends me goofy text messages and ect. He dont buy material things that much coz still we live in different states but that dont matter to me its all the small things that makes me smile and knows he still cares. If u love her and care about her and still want your relationship to go on, what is it going to hurt to do the small things. why because its been 8 months should anything change? A relationship is based on friendship. Also think of it on her side, if she just stopped doing all the things that made u smile and felt good, wouldnt u be a little hurt too and wonder why? Always look on the other side of things too and compermise. :) Relationships dont have to be a chore and if u really care for someone all those little things are not too much for them to ask for. :) take care and best wishes for u both
2006-09-28 15:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get her favorite dessert and put it on her bed. then u get a card that says all u want and need it 2 say then u look into her eyes and ask her is because i dont do this anymore that u feel i dont love u anymore? and when she realizes how much of a jerk she has been she will be doing everything 2 make it up 2 u, ohh and every once and a while buy a card nuthin fance and just copy it and give it 2 her but dont get a card that u know u cant pull off dont milk it 2 much and when she sees that u do that like once a month u will b sure she wont nag no more.
2006-09-28 17:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Do you really need this question answered. If you love this woman, than youre love has to be neverending. I have been with a man for over 16 years, and believe me the relationship has came to that point, and that was a no no. Some people have to know ( and this can be often) that they are loved. Whats going to happen, is that she will find someone that will continue to be romantic. I know that this is hard for some men, you think, " hey i got a her now", but the secret is to keep her. So i would advise you to get on your job, because there is always someone wanting to put their application in. for your job.
2006-09-28 15:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really are slap happy.. lol.. Just tell her that you love her and make her believe you. Don't expect her to sleep with you.. that isn't really what most women find to be romance. They like it when you pay attention to them. You oughtta know this cuz you post questions about relationships almost every day on this site. Spend the time that you ask us for ideas on your gf. She'll think that is romantic.
2006-09-28 15:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Cyber Spacer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your relationship to work, do something romantic, buy her flowers, take her to dinner, send her those little "i am thinking of you emails'.. hell what does that take 60 secs. But if the feelings just are not there anymore... it is time to step back and look at your relationship and decide if there is a future.
2006-09-28 15:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get married, then you don't have to be romantic anymore, just joking, food tastes bland without spices, so do relationships, every so often take her out to eat or have a picnic on the park to let her know that you appreciate and love her, if not she Will find someone else who will. Always tell her you love her too...
2006-09-28 15:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do something romantic. that will hold her off for a while. Get her flowers with a cute card that says shes your best friend. Check this out:I complained to my hubby too and he got me a card with a rose and it was a happy b day card! Im like um hello?! he didnt even read the card but it was cute cause he tryed
2006-09-28 15:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to stop being romatic just because you have been dating her for 8 months. be spontaneous about it, out of the blue bring her flowers or slip a note in her purse every once in a while, you don't have to be super romatic all the time but the little things add up and it will make her happy
2006-09-28 15:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋