There is a girl in my band class and shes a grade younger than me. She is obsessed with me and a few other guys and its annoying the heck out of me. We have a homecoming dance coming up and then a sadie hawkins one in february. She asked me to both, but im going with someone else for Homecoming. How do I break it to her gently that I don't like her, and have her stop obsessing over me? How do I say no to the dance to her?
2006-09-28 15:34:29 · 11 answers · asked by brinton v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
two dates for the same dance... if you do not do this you are missing out on some serious hijinks or shenanigans. think of the hilarity.
or you could just avoid her and avoid the subject of the dance etc.... then IF she gets aggressive about it just say something like i would go out with you but you remind me of my mom or an exgirlfriend that you hate. this = not her fault but still there's no chance. this also produces no revenge motive.
2006-09-28 15:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 11:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be gentle, but firm, remember, it could be you on the other end someday. Tell her no thank you, treat her like you treat everyone else, and don't make a huge deal out of it to her or anyone else for that matter. No drama, it'll help her not to take it so hard (it'll help you with your friends and any other girls who might be watching, too).
2006-09-28 15:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by buickluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her in a nice way that you already have dates for both dances and try to fix her up with one of your friends
2006-09-28 15:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's obsessed with you, she's gonna be hurt anyway, even if youre kind in your refusal.
You might say "no, but its nice of you to ask"
Some girls might get hurt/sad, some get hurt/mad. It's not your fault if you never showed any interest in her past a friendship.
2006-09-28 15:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u said "sadie hawkins" i had a feeling u go to ghchs....in that case just tell her the truth its easiest that way....btw i hangout behind the cafeteria lines u should drop by some time....
2006-09-28 15:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice, be gentle and be honest, she will get over you. Don't be mean though, you could scar her for life. take it as flattery, but let her know in private (so you don't embarass her) that you are not interested and that she needs to back off a little, maybe you can just be friends
2006-09-28 15:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice but firm "I'm sorry but I don't like you that way and I'm going to the dance with so and so." and do not say "but we can be friends" mixed messages.
2006-09-28 15:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by bukkake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make out with the other girl infront of her.
2006-09-28 15:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by @ubreY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her, it might hurt her, but you have to stop all this madness before it is too late...
2006-09-28 16:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋