i was gonna meet this guy for the second time at this festival an he said we'll be all alone - i like him a lot hes a sweetheart, but i might end up doin something i'd regret...and he might not like me if i dont- should i do it anyway?
2006-09-28 15:30:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't go, especially if he expects something from you that you're not quite ready for....
2006-09-28 15:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's setting you up for some "fun". I say don't go. You are afraid he won't like u if u don't go but who says he'll like u after you give him what he wants? If this boy is someone who is into relationships just for the sex then he's not someone you need to be with. You'll end up getting hurt (or PG ) in the end. If he will still be with u even when u say no then maybe this guy is for u.
2006-09-28 15:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by GPHS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a sweetheart he will wait until your ready. No one is worth doing something u dont want to do if u know it will end up in a consequence of regret or trouble. take care.
2006-09-28 15:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to do something you're gonna regret, then don't do it. Chances is that there's another guy out there who would like you even you said that you were uncomfortable with something and would take into consideration what you feel. So address this issue with this guy and if he doesn't listen, dump him... he probably wouldn't feel too bad anyways, and if he really cared, he'd listen to you.
2006-09-28 15:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by racingroadrunner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go. The last thing you want to do is do something that you will later regret. Once it's done, you can't take it back. If he would not like you because you don't want to do something, he isn't worth having anyways.
2006-09-28 15:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does there have to be pressure to do anything. Just go hang out and let things happen naturally and when you feel comfortable, if he isn't going to like you for not doing something that makes you uncomfortable then he isn't the person you should be with anyway.
2006-09-28 15:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you want to hang out with him you should go. But keep in your mind the whole time not to do anything that you would regret. I know it is hard...trust me. But if you keep thinking with a level head you should come out good in the end.
2006-09-28 15:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by jodeegurl79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your talking about opening the gates to him, thats up to you. Sex is always fun when safe, also sounds like you don't know this guy to well. so if your leary then don't do anything you don't wanna do. any respectable guy would know hes not getting any on the 2nd date
2006-09-28 15:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Deeman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants one thing from you. You should look for a guy that will treat you with respect. Don't fall for lust at first sight.
2006-09-28 15:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by Nekkid_Stewie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of sweetheart it is - give me a break.
Be proud for who you are not somebodies doormat.
2006-09-28 15:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna hang out with him--great. Remember, you are the only one who can decide what you want to do with your body.
2006-09-28 15:33:44 · answer #11 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋