Yea so my sister gets married to this guy that is rich you know and she always rubs it in the rest of are faces.She thinks that she is beater then us.She has to kids to a girl and a boy but I hang out with my nephew a lot.But that is the only reason I go over their to play with him.I mean my brother in law is nice but I don't like the way she acts.So should I be mad the she has more thing then me and cut her out of my life, or should I still talk to her and be happy for her?
2006-09-28 15:26:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well it would be hard, not to feel a little jealous, we are human, and sometimes people do make it hard for us to be happy for them, when they are constantly rubbing their good fortunes in our face, but be the bigger person and be happy for her, you never know what is coming your way.
2006-09-28 16:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because your sister married a rich guy and gets what she wants does not mean she is happy herself. I would definitely still talk to her but the hanging out is upto you. The next time she says something that irritates you bring it to her attention and explain why it bothers you. From what you have written I assume that she is a different person since she has married.... ask her what happened to the old sis? If she gets mad at you that is her problem but I am guessing it would be her defensive mechanism kicking in because she knows what you say is true... Good luck
2006-09-28 15:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by oracle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sucks when someone you have to be around, has what you want. The difference between an unsuccessful person, and a successful person would be. One would blame the sister entirely, and use it as an excuse to run. and the other would use it as motivation. Successful people are rarely pesimists. thats why they end up with things, because they are always aiming high. chances are, your sister got lucky, but dont let it do you in, or feel bad about yourself.
2006-09-28 15:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Covetousness (envy) is the only sin with no upside, so I don't recommend it. It makes you feel bad even while you are doing it.
If you enjoy your nephew's company, don't let your sister's personality get in your way. Talk to her enough to be polite.
2006-09-28 17:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for her maybe one of these days you can marry you a rich man and rub it in her face lol
2006-09-28 15:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE AS YOU WILL FIND OUT MONEY DOESN'T MAKE YOU HAPPY NOR MAKE YOU BETTER THAN OTHER. I KNOW SOOO MANY RICH PEOPLE, ALL WHO ARE NOT HAPPY AND GETTING A DEVORCE, FEEL SORRY FOR HER NOT JELOUSE. TIME WILL PROVE I AM RIGHT. JUST SIT BACK AND WATCH. AND THAT WOULDN'T BE VERY BIG OF YOU TO CUT HER OUT JUST BECAUSE OF $$$$. PEOPLE ARE SO FOOLED BY THE MONEY B.S. WE ARE ALL THE SAME.
2006-09-28 19:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular there are some human beings around.What I easily have considered is lots of the female quite be layed up with a pig that has 10 pounds of rings throughout his physique and not have not something to grant than to be with a guy it is stable and shield and can grant her aleast maximum of what she might desire to have.and not hassle in regards to the subsequent meal and no Mcds please i advise a real meal.
2016-10-18 04:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B happy for her,and keep hanging out wit your nephew,sis might irritate you but think of his feelings bfor you react.
2006-09-28 15:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does getting gels have to do with marriage? I don't understand.
2006-09-28 19:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy for her
2006-09-28 15:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋