2006-09-28 15:25:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, there is no easy way to tell someone that you want him to move out, but if you are gonna do it, do it soon......don't put it off any longer than you have to. You are gonna have to be straight to the point with him and honest no matter how it hurts him and yes it will hurt him im not gonna lie.
Tell him you want him to move out and then tell him the reasons you want him to do so.......He's gonna need some time to find a place and move his stuff but when he does finally move out.......tell him you wish you him well and hope his life turns out well for him then let him go.
2006-09-28 15:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want you to move out. That is what you say. Honesty works better for all involved. Keeping someone around because he do not want to hurt them hurts everyone in the long run. You must still be young and life will go on with or without you. I say move on. Tell him to hit the road Jack!!!! Be nice but kick him to the curb
2006-09-28 15:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want him to move out do u wanna break up to??? im just a little curious about that.
i would wait a little bit and see if your situation improves. if it doesnt i would just put it out there and tell him straight out, no lies or saying nice stuff, just tell the guy. i know this will sound cheesy... but honesty is the best policy, no matter what.
i hope this guy moves out...everyone needs to be happy!!!
2006-09-28 15:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by *BoNitA ChIcA* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, watch what you say and be gentle. It will cause a major strain on your relationship either way. Chances are if you want him to move out, a break-up is in the horizon.
2006-09-28 15:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lady G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the "talk"...then tell him...you need to move out...this is not working for me.
2006-09-28 15:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be direct and straight forward with him. dont sugar code anything. tell exactly why you have come to the decesion and why you are taking these actions. but before you do make sure that this is what you want to do and want regret push come to shove.
2006-09-28 15:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him why you want him to move out, he'll probably understand, if the reason is legit enough.
2006-09-28 15:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off. That is probably the only reason he is staying around anyway.
When the nook dries up, he will wander away. No big scene. No big drama.
2006-09-28 15:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
juz tell the truth.that u not comfortable wit ur relationship.he will understand.i think so...
2006-09-28 15:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your seeing someone else...........just kidding, you should just be honest, let him know its not working out anymore and you need your space
2006-09-28 15:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by ema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋