2006-09-28 15:25:19 · 20 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
force urself to move on push them in the back of ur head.
2006-09-28 15:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time. And if it's one of those exes that you still pine for, and really still love a lot, than you shouldn't even be friends. To try to be friends with a person that you think of in a love/relationship way will never work because you will end up hurt, or the other person will end up hurt. Either way, it is best to cut all ties. Hide the box of their stuff, avoid all e-mails, phone calls, and places you went together for as long as you can. Suffer through it one day at a time. It wouldn't be called "Love Lost" if it were meant to be easy. This is a big loss, and you have to grieve it, and let it go as if it were dead. I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-09-28 15:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mary D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is the most painfull thing in the world. It makes it worse when you are totally in love with somebody who you know is not good for you. Your torn between your heart and your head. You need to realize that its going to be a long journey down the road of recovery. You honestly will never forget that person and they will always be with you in your heart but you need to remind yourself everyday why you are not togather. When you start feeling like your going to break down try to think about the reasons why that person is not good for you. It is very tough thing to do. Try to keep busy and pull your friends and family close to you for support. Dont go through this alone!!!!! Best wishes to you and take care!!!
2006-09-28 15:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by ParamedicFireman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Keep busy. Realize its for the best and don't give in. Love is made up of many aspects and just because you feel like you still want and need this person doesn't mean you should.
2006-09-28 15:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you'll never forget him cuz he's already been a part of your life, and you can't change it. The only way out maybe is just learn how to bury him into your memories.
2006-09-28 15:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Slevin L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and except the fact that you can not go back. Once you make that mental transition to what will be, instead of what was, things will get easier.
Believe the future IS going to be better!
Go out and have fun!
2006-09-28 15:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try this it worked for me ....Everytime i thought of him or felt myself getting goooey over him ....which i should add was about every 2 mins i just changed the thought in my head from positive to negative and thought what a fu**** im glad to be shot of him !and it really worked and like really quick to the point where i met him out one night and he was trying to win me over again and i really blew him off and saw how pathetic he was .Never underestimate your own reverse psychology!
2006-09-28 15:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by answer me this..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surround yourself with pepole who love you, sisters(if you're lucky enough to have them!), parents, and good friends, and keep yourself busy.
but don't think you will forget your ex. it won't happen. the pain will go away but it will be a process. in the meantime do things that are good for you.. get outside, exercise, go dancing... go to a spa! be easy on yourself.
2006-09-28 15:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by goddess1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think of the reason you left or he left,, it will not change for you,, the person is the way he is and it will happen again to you,, be smart and find the right person to share life with,, you are not a pair of shoes he can take off and put on when he wants,, lol good luck,,
2006-09-28 15:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by quitelovableman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing...best thing if you aint got kids, is to just stop all contact with them and move on...take care of yourself for a change untill someone else comes along
2006-09-28 15:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋