i known 2 females for 6yrs n they turn on me like if i was the bad guy when they the one talking smack
2006-09-28 15:22:10 · 7 answers · asked by caramel j 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You know they are a true friend...when you can trust them or rely on them.
2006-09-28 17:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they turn on you like that, then they are not real friends. If they were real friends they would be nicer to you. Try testing them by talking the smack and see how THEY react to you. I bet they wont find it very amusing and will end up leaving you high and dry. Real friends don't talk smack about each other...real friends are there for you no matter what time of day...and will do just about anything for you. I've had my BF for 25 years....and we both say, if either of us was in trouble and we lived miles away from each other, one or the other would find a way to get there to help the other no matter WHAT!
2006-09-28 22:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by bobbie21brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I found a great person in my life until the day her cousin told me she died in a car accident. It turned out to be a complete lie a week and a half later. I actually thought my life ended as well during those 10 days or so.
I'd say to pick your friends carefully and step away from the conversation and move towards other people you may feel more comfortable talking about this to.
2006-09-30 14:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found in my long long years that to tell a really good friend is when they are there when times are at there worst for you, not just the fun, good times, but when you really need them for support emotionally....That is a friend...Just because you have known them 6yrs does not make them a real friend....my friends now are males I can trust they do not stab me in the back and they do not want me for SEX just a real friend....look out for that knife your so called gf's are holding behind their back
2006-09-28 22:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have one real friend in life, consider yourself blessed.
A really true friend is very hard to fine.
A friend in my professional opinion, is a person who will be there for you in the very best of times and the very worse of times.
Don't waste your time and energy with people who don't fall into this category as they are not really your true friend.
Clinical Psychiatrist, France
2006-09-28 22:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by MINDDOCTOR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends but your acquaintances. It is time for you to find some true friends that do not treat you that way.
2006-09-28 22:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like they are still in grade school and need to grow up. with friends like that who needs enemys
2006-09-28 22:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋