Guy knew I liked him, he was moving away, slept with him, then he was cold, stood me up on the last night, never heard from him since. After 2 wks, i emailed him and told him what I tot of him -that's he just played with my feelings, adn what a 'gentleman' he;s been. But I think of him 24/7, and it's hard. If he contacted me, what should I do?
2006-09-28 15:03:54 · 15 answers · asked by jambuputik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks all for your responses. I really appreciate it!
2006-09-28 15:22:34 · update #1
I believe that you deserve more respect and that the respect you need will help you out in life. When you are with somone that does not respect you then you wont see what life really have to offer you.
2006-09-28 15:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Fantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go. IF he tries to contact you, just ignore it. All he wanted was a one night stand before he left. If he really liukd you he would have stayed in some sort of contact. Move onto a better guy.
2006-09-28 15:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness...
That's horrible!
Find something to help you overcome the obsession with the guy! He doesn't like you, but you fell for him!
Go somewhere out, talk to people as much as you can, make some change! You will overcome the obsession in 2-3 weeks, it is hard but you have to do that.
2006-09-28 15:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mondschein! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL, YOU NEVER NEVER NEVER SLEEP WITH A GUY TO MAKE HIM LIKE YOU.
IT ALWAYS BACKFIRES. HE THINKS YOU ARE EASY AND NOT WORTH GETTING TO KNOW.
YOU ARE NOT A CHALLENGE TO GET TO KNOW. YOU ALREADY PUT FORTH WHAT YOU THOUGHT WAS YOUR BEST ASSET. DON'T BE UPSET THAT HE THINKS THAT, TOO.
QUIT STALKING HIM AND TRYING TO MAKE HIM LIKE YOU. HE WILL BECOME ANNOYED AND THINK YOU ARE A PSYCHO. MAYBE YOU ARE.
NEXT TIME, DON'T SLEEP WITH A GUY FOR 3 MONTHS AT LEAST. AND DON'T INVEST ALL OF YOUR EMOTIONS AND SELF ESTEEM IN A GUY YOU SLEPT WITH ONCE (TO TRY TO MAKE HIM LIKE YOU). THAT'S ASKING FOR IT.
HE IS MOVING AND PROBABLY WANTS NO ATTACHMENTS OR BAGGAGE WHEN HE GOES. DUH.
DON'T COUNT ON HIM CONTACTING YOU UNTIL HE RUNS OUT OF RESOURCES. WHEN HE CAN'T FIND A DATE, OR CAN'T GET FREE SEX FROM SOME S.L.U.T., HE WILL PROBABLY CALL YOU THEN. DON'T FALL FOR IT.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.
2006-09-28 15:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl i think that you shuld just move on that guy is not worth it no matter how a gentel men he was he still slept with you ansd just completly broke up with you so just let him go he is not wowrth it trust me and if he conacts you just ask him why wuld he stand you up like dat and if he comes up wit somthin stupid then dont talk to him ever again
2006-09-28 15:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by fantfelicia207 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ignore him, its his turn to b left out in the cold. and savor the power trip. then when he starts getting desperate be like "o, did u need to talk to me, i've been busy partying it up w/o u"
2006-09-28 15:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obvously just used you. If he contacts you, he will use you again. Find another guy, forget about him or continue to be walked on. Its your choice?
2006-09-28 15:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by BPZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him do play games with him just like he did with you
2006-09-28 15:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to ge screwed, he is just a ***!!!!!! try to not think about him and move on for your own good, i know it will be hard but try not to look back, i had to do that with my ex, but you slowly start to feel better
2006-09-28 15:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by Els M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him like a soggy pizza in a garbage bagg!
... or you can feed him to the squirrells...
2006-09-28 15:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by ○◘•DaNdAnA•◘○ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋