ive had an abortion 4 times !
2006-09-28 14:55:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
i hope this question is a joke .. and not real.
if it is true ... it's very sad. abortion was never meant to be used as casual birth control. have you ever heard of condoms ... or the pill ... or the patch ... or the shot?
have you EVER thought of abstinence?
abortion is legal ... yes. but it's wrong. 4 times ... and thinking about a 5th time???? that's appalling.
you are obviously not mature enough to be a parent ... so give the baby up for adoption and then do something to prevent future pregnancies.
i'm shaking my head in disbelief .....
2006-09-28 15:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by :|: raven :|: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sweetpea,
First of all, check out that birth control, abortion is not the answer, and if you could see the process and what is done to that child, just don't go there, it's not good.
Anyway, check with your doctor for better birth control, shot, implant, there are a few other ways than to take the pill, many women forget, aren't able to tolerate the pill or don't like to take pills so check with the doc to see what other options that are available to you to prevent further damage to your body and to an unborn child. Also you may want to consider that excessive abortions may cause so much scar tissue and other damage that when the time comes that you are ready for motherhood you may not be able to.
As for keeping the baby, if you are not ready, keeping the baby is not the answer, you can ask the father is he wants to assume the responsibility of care for a newborn, is he ready himself? Is he secure financially to where he can meet all the necessary needs to be able to provide total care, does he have a good support system to be able to fall back on for hard times, financially (if he should run into a little trouble), emotionally? Does he have insurance for the baby, can he afford insurance? There is alot to consider, just because he is the father, doesn't mean he will be the best choice for the child. The both of you should also talk more in detail about your futures the babys future and also consider adoption, it could be family, a very dear friend or find an attorney that deals with adoption and with their help find a family that you and your boyfriend will be happy with. God bless you, It isn't easy, I'm almost 50, I've raised all three of my children alone with no child support or help from anyone, it wasn't easy but I love them to pieces! I have one daughter age 26, another 22 and one son 16 and three grandbabies! Again God bless you and think everything out carefully don't go it alone, it isn't necessary.
2006-09-28 22:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by arachnababe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately dont get another abortion. If ur boyfriend wants to keep it have it if u arent fit to be a mother let him have sole custody. Dont use abortion as a form of birth control. The doctor can write u a prescription thats much cheaper.If you dont want kids you should check into getting ur tubes tied. cuz think about this you murdered 4 of ur kids.
2006-09-29 09:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First no more abortions they leave scar tissue and that build up can later make you very ill. Second if he wants to keep the baby let him have sole custody.
2006-09-28 21:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are harming your body first of all. Secondly if you have not been ready five times why arent you taking birth control? (Not meant to be rude)
2006-09-28 21:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dont become a mother?
2006-09-28 22:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋