Ok I invited my crush to my b-day party he said he could couldnt come cuz of his football game or whatever. And then he showed it to this girl who I think is his girlfriend.. I sense this is bad so I bet her doesnt like me at all but he stares at me! what is going on confusing things.. I am making a apology note to him and his girlfriend so what now?
2006-09-28 14:51:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell 'em sorry for the DRAMA.
2006-09-28 14:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why everyone is missing this but:
This dude sounds pretty off. Why would he show the invitation to some other female he's hanging out with? Answer: To make her jealous or uncomfortable. Quality man.
Also, don't read too much into his staring at you a lot. Guys who date do this all the time and it often doesn't mean much. Except that he's horny.
Finally, I think your reason for wanting to write back when it's obvious things will work themselves out, is that you want an excuse to have more communication with him.
2006-09-28 14:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't owe anyone an apology, least of all him. Have fun at your birthday party and make it real special with the friends that show up.
If you see him, just be all nonchalant. Don't even let on that you like him. Go on with your life as though you didn't even sent him an invitation. Just brush it out of your mind. :-)
Perhaps he really couldn't come because of a football game, but still... If you see him staring at you again, just stick your tongue out and cross your eyes. hah!
2006-09-28 15:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first don't write an apology. u didn't do anything wrong. u didn't invite him as the guy u wanted to hook up w/, u invited him as a friend. and it sounds like u don't no his gf (if its his gf) so its not a big deal that u didn't invite her. and myb she doesn't want him hanging w/ u b/c she nos that he would like u more than her- and then ud have a bf and she wouldn't. but don't write an apology for inviting a friend, that makes it look worse.
he probably does like u but is really confuzed and doesn't no who he likes more, give him a little time.
boys r stupid, and they have cooties- do wat makes u happy
2006-09-28 14:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is either his girlfriend, or she has a big crush on him, the same way you do. So now she's feeling threanted by you because its possible you could get him 1st. (Or she could be jealous she didnt get an invite)
2006-09-28 14:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes just a close friend. ever thought of that? if he stares at u he like the way u look girl! Go on witcha bad self!
lol
2006-09-28 14:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by da*Sexy*feva!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send the note. You didn't do anything wrong. This will blow over in a few days.
2006-09-28 14:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont send it
trust me
jus forget about u invitin him before n carry on
talk to him more n more
get to know him better
and in due time..
he might like you
good luck!
2006-09-28 15:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew. no note. notes r bad. u did nothinggg rong. so u invited him 2 ur party. BIG FFIN SHI.T. i invited all my crushes 2 ALL my parties..and wat now? some of them had girlfriends 2. theres nothing rong with invinting some1 2 ur partyy.<< that he cant even COME 2.
2006-09-28 14:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it you have done nothing wrong, all you did was invite somone to your birthday, big woop,
if you really want to do somethiing confront them and say,''have i done something wrong, whats your problem''
dont let people intimidate you especially when you have done nothing wrong,
stick up for yourself,
Dont write the letter
2006-09-28 14:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send the note you did nothing wrong.
2006-09-28 15:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋