My wife cheated on me. So I decided that I would rather know than not so I told my current girlfriend about 2 years ago that I would rather know if someone came on to her and wanted to sleep with her. As it turned on she said it turned her on but wasn't sure how a guy would feel. After 2 years of talking about it during sex, she told me last May that a guy that comes into her work asked her out. She told me and forwarded emails and let me listen to their calls. They met for drinks, she told him what was going on and he was cool with it and they had sex that night. It has happened 2 other times. And after about 3 months of not calling he was in town and they met at 8PM which is half hour ago. She is going to call from the woman's bathroon at the hotel bar before they head up to his room. It has been a turn on and we are so relaxed and open around each other. No joke, this is going on right now. She will call me when she is on her way home. Girls or Guys, would you do this?
2006-09-28 14:33:04 · 17 answers · asked by CTM 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No i respect myself much better than that to mess around with a whore and it sounds like you are the pimp.
2006-09-28 14:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable with it...it really doesn't matter what others think.
I had thought about bein a "swinger" when me and my ex husband split. But never really had another opportunity after me and a guy friend quit talkin about it and to eachtoher. I think I could IF I was not in a comitted relationship. In a way its the same as threesomes, which I have done...
BUt like I said, as long as you guys are cool with it keep doin it.
2006-09-28 21:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You guys are open on a bad relationship. you're actually okay with her sleeping with other man, and you maybe with other women? have some self respect......
2006-09-28 21:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by pheobe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its totaly normal... marriage is not about sex its about friendship. and if you can take it to that level of trust then you use more brain then sex drive. anyway keep up the good work
2006-09-28 21:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you are an emotional exhibitionist. Set a time and a date, and cross the sexual rubicon. Bi!
2006-09-28 21:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sad-Dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some issues
sexually transmitted disease
empty relationship
unhealth all the way around
2006-09-29 02:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by marie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha how much are you charging to sleep with your girl
2006-09-28 21:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if it gets you off then have fun with it.....but i would recomment not getting married or in a real serious long term emotional relationship
2006-09-28 21:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yer gonna catch a fungus.
2006-09-28 21:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by phooey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should value a relationship more than that!
2006-09-28 21:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Cessy_Boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋