i have a mum and a dad, and my mum thinks i got a boyfriend. she is always asking me questions and stuff. i told her i dnt have a bf and she is always lookin after me. wen i go to friends houses and the movies yer wateva. she comes in wif me and then wen we get the tickets we go in the movies. and then my mum leaves. she is like askin me thes realli weird qustions like on guys? how can i get her to stop and convince her that i dnt have a bf. thanxs
2006-09-28 14:32:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
something has caused her to be curious.....
some action you have taken or something said has caused her to be curious....
be thankful you have a mother who cares...
if not ready for a boyfriend yet express that to her and advise her that you will talk when that time comes....
perhaps SHE knows of someone who may be interested and assumes you have noticed too.
2006-09-28 14:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and talk to her. Tell her that you are appreciative she is looking out for you esp. when it comes to boys, but you find it annoying because it makes you feel like she's accusing you, not trusting your word. Tell her that as soon as you think you are interested in having one, she'll be the first one that you'll tell. Meanwhile, please stop. Kiss her and give her a big hug. IF YOU CAN'T FIND THE WORDS TO TELL HER, SHOW HER MY ENTRY... or write her a letter desribing how you feel. That'll be a start :)
2006-09-28 21:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by hellokittyt012263 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman is worried about her daughter. Parents paranoia, it's their prerogative. She will get over it sooner or later. And one day when you have your own children you will laugh at how much like your Mum you are. That's right, having kids can make you paranoid about their well being.
2006-09-28 21:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that her constant suspicion is putting a strain on your relationship with her. Make a deal with her that you will be honest (with limits, such as not giving TMI!), but in turn, she needs to stop putting you under the microscope.
2006-09-28 21:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just worried you don't trust her enough to tell her when you do. Why don't you sit down with her and tell her that you know why she's worried but that when you get to that point you'll tell her. This may calm her nerves knowingthat you understand her worries.
2006-09-28 21:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by arl21amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? This could have a lot to do with her concerns. Try just talking to your Mom.
2006-09-28 21:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by risa131313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All moms do that. my mom always ask if I like people and if I think people are cute. Just be honest with her, then maybe she will stop.
2006-09-28 21:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn it around on her sweety......start inviting her everywhere you go....have your friends in on it......play it up, she'll get tired of all you girls fairly quickly. And she won't bug you anymore because she will see that you really are telling the truth.
2006-09-28 21:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just trying to do her job as a mother there is nothing you can do to stop her
2006-09-28 21:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her because this could be a problem when you get bigger she will lose you at the far end
2006-09-28 21:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋