I like my friend that I've known for five years, and he told me that he knows, and he broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago, she didn't break up with him, it's the other way around. Anyway, he says that if he ever wanted to go out with someone, that I'd be one of the first girls he'd ask out...do you think that he really likes me, or just wants to use me? Also, he had sex with his last girlfriend, and he knows that if we ever went out, that I'm not stupid enough to go down that direction, but I'm still a bit worried. What do I do?
2006-09-28 14:20:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he isn't that into you, otherwise he'd ask you out. He is just playing with your head, or he doesn't really like you and doesn't want to hurt you. I suggest finding somebody else....
2006-09-28 14:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - Good job for deciding NOW that you aren't going to be the kind of girl that let's guys in your pants like that. And it is a little tough to point out who exactly broke up with who.
But you've known him for obviously a long time - so use your best judgment. The only suggestion I can really offer without knowing him personally is to; let him know you would enjoy dating him - as long as you are still able to keep a "friend status" no matter what... no need to say "he's your BF", just see what he's like with you, and if it gets to weird, let him know and break it off. If he's not mature enough to understand the whole "friends" thing, he really isn't worth your time. Just a good friend.
2006-09-28 14:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by kIXX AND GIGGLES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there my friend, I think, the best way to go with this is to just try and be closer with him as friends, and go from there. Maybe going out with him right away would be a bad idea..since like you said, he had sex withi his ex. I dont think he would use you in that way but..ya never know. Im not trying to be mean or anything by saying this, but a lot of guys just use girls for their bodies..Id give it time, then, if you guys really become close somehow and actually feel like you can really trust each other, then go for it, go out with him then. Some things can take awhile, but most of the time, its worth the wait, so just be patient, okay? Talk to ya later friend, I tried, hope my advice helped at all..see ya
2006-09-28 14:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by ~sweetie k~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all listen to ur self "one of the girls he asks out" this guy is new out of a relationship and is not tryin to get into another then how do u know him and his girl r through for good if he is having sex with her he is gonna want it from somewhere else if she is not giving it to him cause there "not together". the worst thing to do is date a guy fresh out of a relationship. if u don't wanna be hurt find u a new guy to crush on. Plus if he is really ur friend and u r not sure about the situation why mess up a good friendship.
2006-09-28 14:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by toya1jolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that's a tough one, but if I were in your shoes I'd be VERY careful because if he knows you like him he's most probably trying to play with you or just see if he could get you to do the things you say you won't! Then again you know him so you have to think to yourself does he care about me enough as a person to not want to hurt me even if he doesn't get what he wants. Well think about that and Good luck!!!
2006-09-28 14:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's possibly used to the interest you gave him once you've been rehearsing at the same time. He might want to be wondering himself if he likes you or no longer and is possibly testing you too, to work out once you've a weigh down on him. in simple terms shake it off and be particular you drop some tricks saying that you're feeling he's a youthful brother to you. The "brother" challenge truly receives the message throughout!
2016-12-06 08:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u should if u really like him and just be real with him and sense he knows u wouldnt go down the road he took with his other girl friends then it might not matter if u have sex with him or not tell him how u feel and giv it a try
2006-09-28 14:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship is different. If he told you those things it doesn't mean he wants to use you. After all you've been friends 5 years, you should know him that much... Talk with him and think clearly. No big deal.
2006-09-28 14:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by trile_le3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had some good advice for ya but you said under 25. I am 26, don't think you want my opinion so nevermind!
2006-09-28 14:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by domestic?goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the type that would use you? After knowing you for so long and being your friend? Do what you think is right....life is about taking risks if it works out ...good...if not ...at least you tried.
2006-09-28 14:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋