a good thing or a bad thing
2006-09-28 13:47:10 · 20 answers · asked by allie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i like this guy like a bf and everone is like ur friends with benfits
2006-09-28 13:54:20 · update #1
i dont want the sex part in him
2006-09-28 13:58:15 · update #2
it means you get sex and no relationship.
You get a call whenever he wants some sex. Or you call him whenever your in the need.
It normally blows up in someones face, but hey, it works for some people.
2006-09-28 13:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to be very clear about what's happening. When I was single, I had a guy that I used to see for sex every week. We both knew that we weren't interested in a relationship and so it worked well for us. Even though I'm a girl and people think that girls get too emotionally involved, I didn't at all. It was a very unusual situation and a lot of women can't do it. I thought he was hot, but he was also extremely arrogant and I could never see myself with him as a boyfriend, but he was a great "friend with benefit." I stopped seeing him the minute I got involved with my now husband. I think he was a little disappointed because we had such a good time without the commitment, but I then found a wonderful man who was hot and not arrogant and more husband material! So I had my fun while it lasted and no harm done. Oh we were also very safe with sex, every, every time!
2006-09-28 13:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by MrsTee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that can go both ways but only you can answer this one ok first if you like being use and don't want a serouis relationship and you are a booty call two if you want a commiment and one person in your life and don't have to worry about sexual disease then you make the choice PS:remmeber a friend with beneifits can be passed around good luck
2006-09-28 13:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...if your all for it then it's a good thing...just be careful to not get attached to that person cause you already know the rules to the game...but now if your a woman of morals and stuck on old fashion beliefs then it would be a bad thing...the point i'm trying to make is what's good for others may not be good for you....
2006-09-28 13:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really depends on the situation. like if things are awkward between the two of you now or if one of you starts to have feelings for the other that arent being reciprocated. or it could just be some innocent fun between two friends who find each other attractive. it depends i guess...
2006-09-28 13:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by standstill 22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nobody to answer that question for you. Everyone has his or her own set of expectations or sense of morality. Just look at your situation and think about how you will feel about yourself and the other person, then make the best choice for you.
2006-09-28 13:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 times out of 10, no. Someone always ends up getting hurt when the other actually finds someone they'd rather be with.
2006-09-28 13:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation.
2006-09-28 13:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your situation. if he's married or you're married bad. If you're just friends who like to couple then it's still bad cause you don't get the emotional fulfillment that you need.
2006-09-28 13:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only useful to the individual who feels benefitted by it.
2006-09-28 13:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋