i been with my boyfriends for almost a year and a half we split about 2 weeks ago i had a lot of feelings for him and he broke my heart how long will it take to get over him or what can i do to speed the process up!!!
2006-09-28 13:22:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LIKE TWO DAYS BEFORE WE SPLIT HE TOLD ME HE WOULD ALWAYS LOVE MY NO MATTER WHAT NOW WHY WOULD HE SAY THAT THEN BREAK UP?????
2006-09-28 13:44:07 · update #1
each relationship will take time to heal at its own pace no one can give you a set time limit...don't sit and dwell on him get out and try new things meet new people when you are not looking for a relationship and are just being you is when your fall into love again...good luck and go out and have some fun!!
2006-09-28 13:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speed it up? When a person dies, or in cases of bad breakups....its best to mourn the loss of a loved one or relationship for awhile and then begin letting go of visual reminders. Little at a time. The less you talk about the person, etc. it's easier to look back comfortably and not miserably. That's if you want to get over your guy quick. Hope that helps.,
2006-09-28 20:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy, do really nice things for yourself and try to stay around other people friends/family as much as possible. Let the sad feelings come, if you fight them, they'll just hurt more. Give yourself like one whole day to just cry and be miserable, listen to old love songs etc...., then the next day make it a point to look ahead at the future and meeting someone who won't break your heart like that.
2006-09-28 20:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could take a few months. Go out with your friends and have fun, or if you feel ready start dating and maybe you'll find the right guy that won't break your heart!
2006-09-28 20:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I broke up with my ex almost 2 years ago, and I still love him so much. If he asked me to come back to him, I would drop everything, to be with him.
2006-09-28 20:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you... you'll get over him when you are ready. Don't jump into a new relationship to compensate for the loss though. Rebound relationships don't exactly fix anything.
2006-09-28 20:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
2006-09-28 20:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read somewhere it takes about half as long as you were in the relationship for...i dunno if they did studies or if thats someones opinion but i hope it isnt really really true i just got out of a 7 year relationship 3 months ago it still really ahrd but i dont want to wait 3 years or so to get over it ya know
2006-09-28 20:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out there and let the world know that you are ready for the next relationship.
Don't let your past one dictate what your next step will be, go out, meet someone, and get on with your life!!!!
2006-09-28 20:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take as long as u let it..as long as u need it to be as longa s it takes to find ur next victum ..so good luck n sorry to hear bout ur lose of love
2006-09-28 20:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋