There is this boy in my school who I have known all my life. He is cute and nice and smart and funny. I want to go out with him, but he can be shy and probably won't ask anyone out. I want to ask him out, but girls don't really do that in my school, and I'm afraid of rejection. Can I have a friend drop a few hints for me, or is that weird?
2006-09-28 13:17:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT HAVE A FRIEND DROP HINTS FOR YOU. If you're interested, it will sound much better coming from you. He might have not asked you out yet, because he may be afraid of rejection aswell. Ask him to the movies (make sure that he understands that you just want it to be you and him) or ask him to a coffee shop or something after school, start having a conversation with him and then slip in..."So, would you like to go out with me?" Make sure that you have eye contact and wait for his answer so he knows that you're being serious
2006-09-28 13:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by kittycat_cc14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, put it this way. If you don't ask him out, you'll never know if he were to say yes to you. Let's say, for example, somebody else liked him and decided to ask him out first, and he said yes....your chances would be over. And ya, I think it's a great idea to have a friend drop a few hints for you....but he might accidentally get the wrong idea that it's your friend....so be careful about that. And being afraid of rejection is bad, go for it! People in my school never really asked people out either but there were a few people going out. Also, it would be better if you asked the boy out alone, because usually if he's around people, he might wanna show everyone how cool he is, and say no. So ask him while he's alone. Hope this is helpful to you! Good luck!
2006-09-30 09:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~Fashionista!~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't weird... its the "norm" in school. Most girls are too afraid of rejection (for one because they never have had to ask a guy out). The key to asking a guy out... is the same for a guy to ask a girl out. YOU CAN"T CARE IF THEY SAY NO! :D If you start to care, then you might chicken out. Thats why its easier to ask a stranger out than a close friend. If you want to ask him out... flirt with him for a week or two. If he doesn't ask you out (and you said he's shy..so he probably wont), then you can ask him out. If he starts dropping hints or if he seems to be a bit "stand off ish" then I woudln't ask him out, as this is likely to be his way of saying "no thanks".
If you proceed with asking him out... just tell him that you think he is a great guy, and that you would like to "hang out" more often, so that you 2 can see where that leads. if it leads somewhere... great. If it doesn't... no worries. This should be pretty easy to do...because you are simply asking someone to hang out.
2006-09-28 21:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is just to go up to him and make it friendly, like hey you want to hang out or go to ......... Just act like it was nothing special and you just want to do something with them. This way it will be much easier for you and at the same time you are asking him out without him actually knowing it. Then more and more times you go out and all of the sudden you are going out!
2006-09-28 20:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by T G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-28 20:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break outta the shell girlie, walk up to him and say hey dude wanna go to the movies sometime? Its not the 80's anymore
2006-09-28 20:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by KittyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know you like him and then just ask him out casually,alot of guys might be shy on making the firt move because of reject,like in my case i like this girl but im afraid she might reject me so dont do nothing,who know's,maybe he likes you too
2006-09-28 20:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by XZELSOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could strike up a conversation with him and see what his interests are and in a suttle way drop a few hints,or get interested in something he's interested in.it's worth a shot.good luck!
2006-09-28 21:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by preast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that happened to me
i was liked her and was really shy and nervouse to ask her out. just ask over aim and tell him to ask u at school when u asked him out over aim.
2006-09-28 20:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by burninlizardswithblowtorches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo, hello, wear abercrombie become a big bich and rule the school! u might forget him or he might notice u
2006-09-28 20:21:57 · answer #10 · answered by lilhotshigger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋