My boyfriend and I are tierd of everyone scooping in on our business and relationship. For example my little sister is always asking about our privite conversations. She is only 14 and i have no idea how to make her just leave me alone. I am about to be 18 and ready to be treated with respect. So will someone help?
2006-09-28 13:13:06 · 15 answers · asked by joshuaandashleigh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
use some authority, girl! tell those people "hey...this is private. it's none of your business!"
As for your sister: she is just jealous. after all, she's only 14 and too young to have a relationship. maybe sharing a little bit of your experiences wouldn't be such a bad idea. it'll prepare her for her first relationship. it's what sisters do.
2006-09-28 13:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Milka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't!!!! Never, ever, ever. Even if you marry. You can go your whole life being ready to be treated with respect. Its a long hard road honey. Buckle up for the ride.
2006-09-28 20:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants to be just like her big sister. Explain to her you need your privacy as she needs her own. Maybe by spending time with her and having sister time may do the trick. As for her asking these questions smile and tell her you don't want to discuss this with her.
2006-09-28 20:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by ck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn...just tell pll to stay out.it's not that hard but make it b known how annoying it is and how it feels to b treated that way.....but don't b rude about it......just tell the sumthin' like
"can u please not ask me any questions about my relationship?It's my business...and it really annoys me when ppl do that"
if it was my case I would just say it straight up...but hey it's ur choice...and for sum reason I feel like I'm scooping in ur business....so I'll go now cuz I'm starting to feel weird.Good luck with that
2006-09-28 20:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cant talk about what u don't tell. If u don't want the streets in yo business keep yo business out the streets... That's real talk
2006-09-28 20:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by toya1jolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is curious because she looks up to you. You have a responsibility to be nice to her and tell her that someday she will have a boyfriend and not want to tell everyone about their private conversations.
2006-09-28 20:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can get in your business unless you tell them something. Otherwise, they're just being nosy. In those cases, you just nod and smile and say nothing. It's as simple as that.
2006-09-28 20:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by not2nite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't discuss so many details with her. Just find casual conversation to occupy her. Remember that she is looking to you for dating tips.
2006-09-28 20:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by luvngran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, set her little *** up one day. act like you are your boyfriend are plotting on her, make it real good, then when she askes, say look you little nosey *****, stay out of our buisness!!!
you have to show people that you are a grown *** woman, and what you and your man talk about is between you and your man. period.
2006-09-28 20:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile patiently and say "We prefer to keep things between the two of us".
2006-09-28 20:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋