He left me a week after I told him I was pregnate. And around the same time i told him this girl kept on coming around and talking to him. He left me because I wouldn't get an abortion and that he couldn't handle my situation. the day after he left he started going out with this girl that kept on coming around. He said that he didn't want to be involved with the baby while I was pregnate because he didn't want it but he said once the baby is born I want it and I don't want you to have it. I need Your Help.
2006-09-28 13:11:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
**Pregnant.
** The reason why I want revenge is that I'm hurt to know that the guy I have been with for 2 years has just gone up and left with someone else. It makes me upset because I call him and tell him about the baby and he just hurts me with his words. I just wish I could make him understand all of the pain I'm going threw right now.
2006-09-28 13:35:25 · update #1
As much as you think you want to get revenge on him - don't. My ex-husband left me when I was 3 months pregnant. I NEVER said anything unkind about him in front of her. Now she is 24 years old & doesn't want anything to do with him. She can't stand him as a person & she formed this opinion ENTIRELY on her own. It has hurt him terribly that his daughter won't speak to him so essentially I got my "revenge" but I didn't have to do a thing. His time will come - be patient! Good luck to you.
2006-09-28 17:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by dmommab@sbcglobal.net 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER IT
2006-09-28 13:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason, and no matter how bad things are right now everything will get better. Everyone may be saying that but its the turth. Once your baby is born it will be the best thing that ever happened too you. You will soon becom a mommy, and love it. Your baby will be your best friend and you will have something worth living for.
2016-03-18 02:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, he is trying to scare you into having an abortion. He can't just take the baby away from you.
Revenge = CHILD SUSPORT !!!
He help make the baby the law says he has to help susport the baby until it's 18 or graduates high school which ever comes last.
Thank whatever god you might worship that he's gone , this type of male will always cheat & probably be abusive and/or dominating for the durration of any relationship.
Good girl for standing up for your right to do with your body has you choose
2006-09-28 13:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Me M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Greatest Revenge Against Such Ex's (and beleive me I Know)
Have a Happy Life , Refuse to include him , and hit him w/ child support.
Being Happier without him will piss him off the most and benifit you and your child best.
Your kid dosnt need a father of that type and YOU desreve more respect than that.
RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST AND FOREMOST.
2006-09-28 13:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are pregnant? not pregnate? Secondly, you will be the mother once the child is born - he cannot have IT - IT, the child should probably be put up for adoption UNLESS you can
handle being a single mom. Do you have a job? Will you have
health care? You really need help, but not from us - you need
to seek advice from Planned Parenthood, or another organization.
Good luck.
2006-09-28 13:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by sillyone 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1. sue him for child support
2. sue for full custody, so if he runs off with the baby, he'll go to jail for kidnapping
3. Find a great husband.
2006-09-28 13:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by gg 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, It is 100% your decision to keep the baby or not. I do not mean so be judgemental, but you both sound young. Or, at least your ex-boyfriends maturity level is at an all time low. Look, this is a serious, scary situation for some and most people. He is obviously feeling like he is in no place in his life for a child, and you for whatever reason, feel like you need to keep the child, or want to? It is still your choice. Just make sure of one thing, no matter what, this child you are about to bring into this world doesn't deserve to be in the middle of any confrontation at all. He or she should now be the most important thing to you, not your ex-boyfriend. In the long run, he will pay for it more. Just make good choices and forget about getting him or this girl back, it will not help your situation, or make him come back. He is obviously a immature jerk, and you are not.
2006-09-28 13:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by mansyroot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a dummy and he can't have it cause you guys are not married you get custody.. The best way is to ignore him and find you someone else. You don't have to go with the other guy just let him see you with someone else that cares for you and he will go crazy. When he starts asking you questions just tell him it is none of his business and that you had to find a REAL man for you and your baby. This will drive him crazy cause no man wants another man being a dad to their child. If that doesn't work then he never cared for you and you should just move on.
2006-09-28 13:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by browngod2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋