A few days ago, she asked me to finger her. I went down and encountered a rainforest!!! Bottom line, I DIDNT finger her, im pretty sure she has no clue why. But let me tell you it was GROSS. How can I get her to shave it, so i can fulfill her wishes and not be on the verge of throwing up everytime i go down there. By the way, Im NOT a pervert Im 15 and a virgin, same with her. Just two hormonal teenagers...
2006-09-28 13:09:33 · 28 answers · asked by big balla 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Just tell her it would be "soooo hot" if she did it. She should use clippers instead of a razor ... they make special clippers for women's bikini area... they are a little smaller than a set of men's beard clippers. Maybe you should go to Target or Rite Aid together... and tell her you want to look at clippers for yourself... and see if the bikini clippers are there. Just look at them and tell her "wow, that would be so hot if you did that," and offer to buy the clippers for her.
And of course, if she does do it, then you have to react like it's the hottest thing you've ever seen in your life.
2006-09-28 13:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your pubic hair is long enough that it curls then you'll need to trim it with scissors FIRST before you start shaving. Once it's trimmed get your razor, dip it in hair-conditioner (it's smoother) and then shave in the opposite direction of hair growth. Once that's done rinse off the conditioner and your razor. Then dip it back into the conditioner and shave in the direction of hair growth for a closer shave. Also, remember to use a FRESH and BRAND NEW razor when shaving your pubic area. If you don't use a fresh one then you will get nicks and cuts. Good luck!
2016-03-18 02:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'd like to say that I commend you both for still being virgins. I also want to say (and this is just advice)...that no matter what age you are- if you aren't comfortable with talking about what does and doesn't work for you intimately...then, you aren't ready to be doing those things (and that happens even with non-virgins and "adults" too- so, I dont mean that as a slam).
Now...onto your question...
Well, for starters...I think you can make your point about things without the details. Part of maturity, is learning how to speak the truth, without being offensive or too graphic. WHICH, is exactly what will help you in getting your message across to your girlfriend. For example, you can just refer to the sexual acts as "intimacy"...instead of going into detail. Chances are that the girl has no idea about grooming at all. A lot of mom's/big sister's/friends don't share that info. You might want to tell her that while you think she is beautiful - that you find clean shaven to be much more exciting. You might find that she is shocked by that...and has no idea that is what other girls do.
Again, I understand the hormones and all of that...self-control and being selective is important to! If a girl or a guy don't do or don't know the basics about intimate hygeine and grooming....it might be a red flag that they don't know much about other important aspects of sex too...like cleanliness, and protection (even in oral sex)! So...my advice is to think hard before you THINK HARD!
:)
2006-09-28 13:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say pal, but isn't 15 too young? (Don't worry yourself about answering that, it was rhetorical and I know you'd only give me some sort of p*ssed-off blast about age anyway, so I'll ignore the fact that you said that.) You could try to make shaving appeal to her by suggesting it as a fun activity - you shave her, she shaves you (although that you may not be pleased about, but hey you can't be too hypocritical, that'll be her argument!) You could try to introduce it as a laugh (e.g. I can barely see you for your hair!) but make sure to be lightly joking and make sure you don't present it in such a way that it is offensive. Then expand this into a sort of monologue to say how good she would look if she was shaved... expand, be creative, and be gentle (metaphorically as well as physically I suppose) so as not to hurt her feelings but rather as to say how much better it'd be if she did cut-down the rainforest.
2006-09-28 13:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Rich 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bro not to be a dick but this is not the place to be asking this kind of question. I would put your pecker back in your pants and work on school before you end up with a kid before you finish school.
As side note eating at the Y is more fun when it's not a jungle.
2006-09-28 13:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by grande alacrán 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You kids today with your shaved beavers! I grew up in the 70s and like a big hairy bush! It's perfectly normal. Why don't you shave yours and maybe she'll get the idea.
2006-09-28 13:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by trolling_for_recs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can remember being 15 and I can remember things I did with my high school sweetheart...so I wont lecture you on doing things you should be very careful about doing...anyway onto your question,most girls want to feel sexy for their guy so tell her you find it sexy when a woman shaves "down there"
2006-09-28 13:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie1204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. The worst that could happen would be that she says "No" and has her feelings hurt. Also, I think you probably should have fingered her. It's a totally different story if she wants you to eat her out, but I think the rewards for fingering will probably outweigh the sacrifice.
2006-09-28 13:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by will w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, you're 15, you shouldn't be doing that stuff anyway, it's gross!!! Congratulations on being a virgin, stay that way!!! Listen, anything below the belt isn't up for grabs until you know what you're getting yourself into...First of all, you unclip that button and girls get all clingy, next thing you know, they want to have your child or get married, trust me, it's scary!!! Second, you don't know if she may have any infections, or warts, anything. I don't mean to be gross, but instead of playing with eachother, you should maybe just keep your hand to yourself because at least your hand won't get all attached. and if your relationship is sooo special, then it makes no difference if you wait!!!
2006-09-28 13:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well first let her know that u love her, then tell her, babe the Dr.
told my mom that girl's that have a lot of hair there like u have
can cause infections and really hair can really cause oders,
then tell how! How u like it to look, Just go slow telling her that
she want have hurt feelings. good luck! you can do this.
2006-09-28 13:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by MISSIE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋