k my girlfriend Brittany's x boyfriend won't leave us alone. Like I was talking to my friend Adam and asking him if Brittany would like the promise ring I got her and he walked up and just stood there, I beat him up yesterday cuz he hurt her so bad, he cheated on her 35 times and she forgave him, I've been her friend since the fourth grade and today he got mad and did something to make Adam cry like really hard and then Brittany was like U f*ckd up stalker what did u do to him and then he tried to grab her arm and I pushed him, but last time when he got mad she came in my room crying with a huge bruise on her wrist, and then the next day I saw him pull her hair, I wanna kill him but what do I do? she's 13 I'm 14 and he won't stop calling and following us around town. What am I supposed to do everytime Brittany sees him she starts to get a tear in her eye which makes me wanna beat him up, what should I do? I luv her and would do anything but I don't know what to do.
2006-09-28 13:09:15 · 6 answers · asked by nothingforthebest666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and last night when I wa at her house and he called he said something that made he scared and then she asked if I could spend the night. She's already tried to tell her parents but they won't listen. ANd I know once I recorded one of their phone convercations and she said ti leave us alone and that she doesn't love him she loves me and to stay away from us. But then he started yelling at her a bunch of cuse words.
2006-09-28 13:24:47 · update #1
If he is physically hurting her and you are sure he is really stalking you two, she, or you should let her parents know so they can contact the police. I know you want to handle this yourself man to man but dont recommend it, this guy sounds dangerous. She needs to stay away from him and so do you. Dont let your boiled up anger get the best of you and do something that will result in you getting in trouble. Also by doing something stupid yourself you are stooping to his level which you dont want to do. You need to be sure too that Brittany is not leading him on behind your back as much as you dont want to believe it. I think you need to be afraid of this guy and tell an adult right away.
2006-09-28 13:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by tarahump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm wow this is a hard one. Can you talk to the parent units . Are they cool enough to see if a restraining order is just the ticket. If not a principal or councilor. I know it sounds lame to ask the authorities but, He just might hurt you or even worse her. I dont know If the guys a puss or not but he sounds screwed in the head over brittany. get grown up help on this one dude
2006-09-28 13:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by mytwoboyz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should tell him to stop if he dosnt kick his ffucking a** i've beeen in a relationship like that everytime my ex would find out i was happy he would come along make me leave the other person he was just jelouse... cuz he had feelings for me abvously and he just couldnt stand knowing i was happy wiht someone als
2006-09-28 13:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Viinna_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beating him up is not the answer
2006-09-28 13:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by KittyMom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how you feel
2006-09-28 13:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by babykatdream099 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight him
2006-09-28 13:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋