and we do approach them. but women just ignore us.
2006-09-28 12:54:31 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cuz they think it's too easy to get the good guy when they can get ****** over by the assholes! woohoo! pretty much we're dumb and make mistakes, BUT some girls are smart enough to see what they've got infront of them is really the best thing.
2006-09-28 12:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only reason I'm answering your question/rant is because I'm waiting for some software to install on my computer and am quite board right now... I know what you're talking about. There isn't a guy in the dating world that doesn't. First, I think you should realize that you just made a huge generalization which is that all women are as you say which is they ALL ignore the nice, quiet and reserved men. When you say women only go for those arrogant overconfident bastards, one question I can't help asking is: how old are these "women" that you are talking about? If you are talking about women in their 20's that would explain it. Most women (and I must emphasize my use of the word "most") in their 20's are pretty stupid. Fast forward 10 years and you get the exact opposite. The difference? Experience. Most women in their 30's I've encountered seem to want nothing to do with the overconfident, arrogant man. In fact they seem repulsed by it. I think it has everything to do with them just wising up a bit, and when it comes down to it, that's really what you want in a woman anyway. However, I must come half way with you on a point you are making: women do like confidence in a man. I liken it to being the same thing with men being attracted to women with big boobs. I really can't help but feel bad for all those frustrated women who don't. Do you think only women with big boobs are worth dating? You'd be stupid if you said yes. Bottom line, it is what it is. If you are into the young-20s-type women then it gets real simple: get yourself some confidence. There is no shortcut. But if you want a women to accept you for who you are, both the good and the bad, you'll need to, again, become confident in yourself, be yourself and don't give a flying crap about those "other" confident men, most of whom, when it really comes down to it, really are the most insecure people on earth who are just putting on a good show at the bar... but would never admit it. Most women in their 30s have all that figured out...
2016-03-18 02:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think it is just that old thing about women not knowing what they want and then going after men that seem to have the qualities that they are looking for. they may not realize the guy is bad when they meet him, or maybe they just don't care, they think that if he likes them he will eventually change. I don't think women intentionally ignore the good guys, but if you are too good then you may appear boring, unadventurous, or worse to good for the girl. Many girls are nervous with good guys that they won't live up to their standards its easier to be the better person than it is to be the one with a past. I have a good man, i have been with a few bad ones but i knew that they would never be anything serious. My advice is don't worry, if they want a fling the bad guy is fine but when women want to settle down they really do want a good man. Its just hard to tell the good from the bad sometimes.
2006-09-28 13:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by TR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not true! Women do not ignore the good guys...Good guys are hard to find and women just give up hope thinking the guys they meet are all creeps. Don't give up. You are a treasure that hasn't been found yet.
2006-09-28 12:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is some truth to that and I'll give you an example: My sons are very nice, good looking and get really good grades. Their friend, from the past several years who was once considered a 'bad boy', street wise, cool and good looking and all the girls in school had a crush on him. Since he has learned over the past several years to be a sweet guy, considerate and polite....believe it or not, the girls consider him a 'good guy' and dont bother with him anymore. It's too weird.
I suppose that you just have to put yourself out there long enough to meet a myriad of people in different social activities where you have to be one on one with an individual girl or two in order to strike up a nice relationship. Stay nice.
2006-09-28 13:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The women that are ignoring you are not right for you anyway. Why don't you look around for a good women who most men ignore. Trust me their out there. They are usually shy unadorned and not used to taking risks. Go to a party and try the women who are wallflowers. They will be surprised that a man is really talking to them. Even if nothing works out you will have gained some female friends, and most women love setting up their single male friends with dates.
2006-09-28 13:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tks 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women get hit on ALL the time! I use to watch from the back at women in clubs. They were approached 50 times in just a couple of hours. That has to get old when most guys don't have a clue as to what to say or do.
2006-09-28 12:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well there is different reasons. But women dont ignore guys because they are a good guy. They might be ignoring you because of diff reasins. But dont worry you will fing the perfect match.
2006-09-28 12:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by the_smart_one33 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all girls ignore the good ones. I LOOK for the good ones. It's just that they're very hard to find.
2006-09-28 12:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by sweethot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you why.
1rst Good Guys Arnt Good in bad
2nd, They're To Sensitive...
3rd, They're Too Damn Boring
2006-09-28 12:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋