I'm infatuated with a woman 13 years older than me (i'm 24) shes not married, but attached. should i just forget it, or tell her how I feel?
2006-09-28 12:15:05 · 17 answers · asked by mr shankly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My mom is 14 years older than my dad and they have been happily married for 23 years.
Age does not matter, the people do.
2006-09-28 12:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 24 and she is 37 and attached, speak up fast only if you are also ready, willing and able to hear the possibility that she is happy where and with whom she is. Some wrote jail bate and my own arithmetic says not so. As for her sex drive, well, the man who wrote that one must really not know many women in their 40's, 50's, 60's or beyond. Sex is more a thing of the mind and emotions anyhow - not a factor of age.
I'd say you should broach the subject from a "What would you think about (the sort of thing you want with her)?
2006-09-28 12:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Charlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said your infatuated, does any relationship turn out great when it's infatuation? It would deffinately have a chance if you loved each other. But you don't, so my advice is, just forget it. The age is not, and will never be a problem. What determines if a relationship works out is LOVE!
2006-09-28 12:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel i really like this guy who is two years older than me but it makes a big differene maturity wise. I think these situtations really depend on how mature the younger person is and what's best for both the people. Plenty of couples have an age gap though and they seem to work out all right. Just look at Ashton Krutcher his wife's way older than him. you should tell her but prepare yourself to be rejected since she's already with someone else. and be glad if shes happy with that person
2006-09-28 12:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by good advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not although she is attached it shouldnt be a big deal the guy I like is 21 and I am 12 yrs older LOL
2006-09-28 12:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No You should tell her you love her age aint nothin but a number and a date you celebrate....So i think you should tell her/him
But Yeah i was 11 dating 15-16 year olds becuase i had mean feelings....But dont lie about your age because i had that experience but i dont think thats a good i dea do...But yes Tell her/him....
2006-09-28 12:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lil D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get involved. believe me you will end up the loser in the end. even if she chose to have an affair with you and tells you she wont leave her partner you will have more downs than ups due to arguments over this and its really not worth the pain. never get involved with someone who is attached.
2006-09-28 12:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam right there with you iam 40 hes 24 been together 5 yrs and its a blast! so go for it tell her how you feel if she dosent feel the same than no harm no foul.
2006-09-28 12:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could let her know as long as she's not married. But don't expect too much if she's attached to someone.
2006-09-28 12:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can if both are on the same level. But if she is attached I would move on and find another.
2006-09-28 12:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋