Ok. SO i dated this girl before. But i still like her. i want to ask her back out. But she already said no when i asked one of her friends to ask her out for me. Give me some tips about how to ask her back out.
2006-09-28 12:06:06 · 16 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone else better, that likes you for you and will go out with you. Dont date that b**** if she doesnt like you. It's her fault, not yours.
2006-09-28 12:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Hotdivababe 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all - handle your business yourself. Don't EVER ask out a woman through her friends - it's childish and immature. Step up to her and ask her yourself. You might want to meet her and tell her face to face how you feel and that you would like the opportunity to explore the possibilities of a new romance. Tell her that you made a mistake by asking through a mutual friend and that it was wrong. Now if she doesn't want to date you again, suck it up tell her you feel sorry that she doesn't want to give you another chance and move on. Don't be manipulative, don't beg,don't pout and be confident. If you are shy, admit you are! Tell her the truth and maybe she'll understand.
2006-09-28 12:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 - you should never ask someone else to do something for you that you can do yourself - if you want to ask a girl out - do it yourself!
#2 - go up and ask her yourself (forget what the friend said) - it'll either be yes or no - then move on
In the future, have enough maturity not to use middle men.
2006-09-28 12:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her start with just talking to her on the phone or if you run into her at the mall or where ever. form a friendship then ease into asking her out. Take your time. It just might work out the way you want. good luck
2006-09-28 12:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're really into her, try one last time, but confront her yourself. when you go through other people, it shows a girl that you are either (1) cowardly or (2) desperate & girls dont see either as "keeper" traits...
if you already dated her, depending on how it ended, maybe it not worth it.
so if anything, read sentence 1 again.. :}
good luck
2006-09-28 12:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by suede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to go out with her to bad if you can't go up to her in person..
was you a jerk when you went out with her before.. if so don't waste your time she won't forget it.
but if you really want to go out with her ask her yourself . she don't want to hear it from some other girl.. It's no one elses business if she says yes or no to you and she will most likely say no when someone else mentions it..
try telling her you would like to go to a movie or something going out to eat. skating or something she may enjoy to do.. it may surprise you ..
but do it yourself..
2006-09-28 12:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake was going thru her friend. Be direct. Ask her, don't play games and have her friends be in the mix....be a man mister, get to going out!
2006-09-28 12:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by Cat 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you cant get her back now you should have asked her back out yourself then you would have had a better chance
2006-09-28 12:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by schlatter17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't push it...there is nothing a girl hates more than constant nagging!!! give her some time, and ask he later in the future...
2006-09-28 12:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Girl♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-28 12:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋