I have a problem with letting go of my first boyfriend. Although it was a short relationship, it was beautiful and innocent (it never went past kissing),and we saw each other alot so it felt longer. But he was the one who ended it. I had dated only one guy before him but that was nothing, it was 2 dates and he wasn't even my boyfriend. I also shared my first kiss with my first bf at 20! I know it sounds late but I'm really picky. Neways, I just met another guy, we're just chatting on msn but he's nothing like my first bf. My first bf was so sweet, caring, he called all the time. Some people have told me that my first bf might not care as much as I do, now that its over, since I was 20, he was my first relationship and I had no experience, while he was 24, in grad school and more experienced. He even told me that our relationship was the "purest" one he had had! Do you think he still cares or even thinks about me, or was he just trying to get laid, but since it didn't happen he left?
2006-09-28 11:58:54 · 7 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it doesn't matter what he thinks. You need to go forward in your life. If you compare everyone to him, you'll end up single all your life. He was great because you didn't know him well enough to know his flaws. Everyone has them.
2006-09-28 12:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie guys dont keep emotional issues like we women do. If he has broken it with you and it has been so long, it is most like likely that he has moved on and therefore you should to.
I know this is easier said than done but you really should not be wasting your time feeling attached.
As for your last question, only he can answer that. No matter how many responses you get in this forum, you will never find out the truth until you ask him yourself.
Take care and good luck.
2006-09-28 12:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ended the relationship that should tell you that he was not interested anymore. The only reason why you keep thinking about him is because he is the only relationship you have been on. Just give someone else a chance but becareful because there are guys out there who do not want anything serious. Be with somebody who wants to be with you. You will find him.
2006-09-28 12:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cared about you, but now, he has grow apart a little bit, if you may. There are many men out there, and I would know, my junior high has over a thousand kids in it, it has boys!!
2006-09-28 12:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Read n' Write 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say, but try to move on, and if he still cares, he'll contact you. Give him time and space. But try to stay busy and have some fun, don't just sit around and wait.
2006-09-28 12:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably getting laid right now.
Hope that answers your question.
2006-09-28 12:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you just move on.......he's the one missing out and besides you can force someone to be with you..they have to want that on their own.............
2006-09-28 12:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋