Why is my life so monotone and boring?

Question

Nothing ever happens to me...

Answer 1

It is well said, 'Life is a blank cheque given by god to us. If we are driven by doubts--how could I put any amout which I wish?will it not amout to deceiving god"could it be that he had not put in the amout due to forgetfulness what with so many of us clamouring for the cheque at the same time well it is we who are resonsible if the cheque bounces being blank. You seem to be the guy or girl who hails from those diffidents. Go ahead and put in any amount you wish, add as many zeroes as you would like. God is a solvent party and there cannot be any dearth of funds in His account.But there is one condition you have to work to deseve the final amount on the cheque.This is wat you are perhaps lacking. God does not mind any salary you demand.He only expects work in return.Wonder how you are so reluctant to put on a fancy figure on the cheque and then blame yourself for that missed chance.If the Sun were to say that he finds it quite monotonous to rise daily what would happen.By terming your bounden duty as monotonous you are mimicking that Sun in the fables.Try to cultivate interest in the work and even supposing that it is as monotonous like the Sun's job bloat youself with the pride that somebody has entrusted this work to you in the firm belieg and trust that you are capable or discharging the responsibility.The long and dreary nights may get on the nerves of a chowkidar but he proudly stands to attention with the thought that hundreds of people are sleeping soundly in the firm belief that he is on duty and will not be in any way amiss in it.Happy is the man who has found his work.'The Bible says.Why can't upi identify yourself with your work? It is well said,'All work is one percent inspiration and 99 percent perspiration.

Answer 2

Indeed, there are people who live lives of quiet desperation. But, most find both excitement and comfort in their everyday existence. For example, society has always underrated the importance and excitement of raising children. In a society where we need a certain amount of eduction, a certificate, a degree, or a license to do almost anything, we don't need any qualifications at all to bring a child into this world. That means that most people are woefully unprepared for the job. However, if you take the time to learn the basics about child-rearing, you will find that it is a demanding job that requires ingenuity, creativity, and understanding. It is an immense challenge. I have only one child and cannot imagine how people manage to raise more than one offspring in such a way that allows their child to utilize much of the potential that is there at birth. Beyond that, we have many jobs that are awe-inspiring. Teaching is obviously one of them. However, skilled occupations and professions offer daily challenges and rewards. I think that the people of whom you speak are under-educated individuals who deal only with the aspects of our society that are routinized, regulated by others, and demeaning. Moving crates from point A to point B, operating a cash register for eight hours a day, sweeping floors -- these are boring jobs that seldom, if ever, provide any challenge or reward. The way to avoid that kind of life is to get an education and enter an occupation or profession that has some meaning. But, even if education is out of the question, people can become involved in community-improvement activities. When you actually see changes occur because of effort that you've expended, you transcend that feeling of impotence and drudgery. Becoming a hospital volunteer, serving on a civic committee, getting involved with your local arts organization, becoming a Big Brother or Big Sister, working with the local "rescue mission," helping out with the local animal shelter (and the list goes on and on) can bring substance into your life. Every community has these needs, and satisfying these needs turns quiet desperation into active participation. Depression is transformed to elation. Meaninglessness to contribution.

Answer 3

Because you are not wild and spontaneous. you've never done anything on a whim and went with it like skinny dipping, or even ***** slapping a police officer. Life can be fun if you live with no fear, but you'll have a short life. Especially after all those jailbirds pass you around like a roll of toilet paper.

Answer 4

You need to change your perspective on life. We all have a daily routine in our lives, whether we go to school or work, and have to adapt to factors that influence our lives beyond our control. Be thankful that nothing bad happens to you and consider yourself fortunate. Go out with friends, make new ones and enjoy your life.

Answer 5

A doctor commented to me once that I had made the mistake of believing what I saw on TV. If there is somebody you want to get to know better, ask him or her to go out for a refreshment with you.

Answer 6

Why don't you try to make things happen, instead of waiting for things to happen? Get out and do things! Be in charge of your life.

Answer 7

Life is 90 percent of what you make it and 10 percent how you take it.

Answer 8

life is what you make of it, you create your own destiny....ask yourself what in your life would make you happy? then what do YOU need to do to make that happen? what is the first step you need to take? and finally..........whats stopping you?

Answer 9

not even with a nickname like that??..you have got to be joking!

Answer 10

go rob a bank... things will definetly happen.