then i sent him an IM because I saw he was online and i asked where he was at, and he just said.. not here.... and then logged off...... what should i think of this?
2006-09-28 11:42:55 · 19 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you considered getting a private investigator to follow him around 24 hours a day?
2006-09-28 11:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't contact him. That seems to be the signal he is trying to send out. I would just back off, don't call, don't IM, and wait for him to do it on his own. If he doesn't ever call you, just know that his avoidance of you was his inability to cope like a mature person and end the relationship with you. Good luck.
2006-09-28 18:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Janelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend that cheated on me for a full year before finally confessing (I suspected it, but stupidly believed him when he said nothing was going on). He'd always be impossible to get ahold of. My answer is: if you feel something's up, it usually is. I didn't follow my gut feeling, and I regret it. I was extremely devastated when he told me what he'd been doing. I hope you're not sexually active with your bf. I was w/ mine, and I found out that he'd been having unprotected sex with both me and the girl he was cheating on me with. She had no idea I existed. I knew about her, but he said they were just "work friends". If your guy is acting shady and giving you weak answers, I'd consider ending the relationship. You deserve a guy that respects you!!
2006-09-28 18:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think that your boyfriend is either mad at your or not interested in you anymore.
If he cared about you, he'd answer your calls and even if he was mad, he'd write more then "not here" as a message.
Ignore him, stop calling him, wait until he calls you. And, if he never does, then you know he wasn't worth your time in the first place.
2006-09-28 18:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. He's avoiding you. Unless you've been w/him for a long time, he's trying to cut you out. Unfortunately boys don't have the guts to dump girls, especially if they don't have a good reason or if they've found another girl. Good luck. I think he's done with you
2006-09-28 18:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by *Juicy Princess* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having a bad day. Give him the benefit of the doubt for now, but if it continues,,, You should let him have it for being so rude!
2006-09-28 18:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it wasnt him. Could have been his brother, or his sister, or just a friend online.. Could have been his mother or father snooping around. Give him a chance to explain.
2006-09-28 18:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think something is wrong and he's avoiding it. Don't call for a bit and try tomorrow.
2006-09-28 18:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just needs his space right now for whatever reason...don't hound him about it, it might chase him away.
2006-09-28 18:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try calling some of your girlfriends i bet he is with one of them
2006-09-28 18:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by ogrockwell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋