Im new at school and I dont have many friends. Doeas any one have any suggestions Im tired of eating alone. Does anyone have make up Ideas or style ideas that would help?
2006-09-28 11:38:26 · 18 answers · asked by boycrazedprinces709 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
go up to others and talk to them. that is a start.
2006-09-28 11:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by tanvismo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have an idea of what you are doing wrong. As a matter of fact I can almost imagine you sitting in the cafeteria---eating alone. Why? I mean WHY are you eating alone? Easy. Because you never asked anyone to join you. You've been sitting there, feeling sorry for yourself--right? Wondering and wondering WHY oh Why nobody ever asks YOU to be with them. The answer? Because they are all like you. They sit there wondering and wondering WHY nobody ever ...Oh---on and on....
Just get up, cross the floor [SMILE) and say (casually) "Hi! ...Would you mind if I join you? You look so interesting and I just hate sitting by myself!
Betcha they'll smile and say `Sure!' Betcha they'll look SO relieved! (That's how everyone is!) And if they say 'Well, er---I was just waiting for [my boyfriend/girlfriend--whatever)---well...just believe them---and ask someone else! What do you have to lose anyway?
2006-09-28 23:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, girl! We have like the exact same avatars!! Cool! Well, anyways, I was in this situation once... I went to a school where all my friends was for 8 years and then I moved... it was horrible.. I knew no one, and yeah, it's hard... but here's some advice, don't pick someone to hang out with just cuz ya don't wanna eat alone, be careful who you pick for a friend, you can get messed up...sometimes it's better to eat alone thatn have a bad friend. Don't worry, you'll get to know the people, and just inspect them first, and find someone who looks nice and start talking to them.. you'll regret it if you are shy and don't make any friends... and trust me I know what I'm talking about... luckily I'm now back at highschool with my friends I went to grade school with. But if this isn't the situation for you, just don't be shy and make some good friends.. because there's someone good out there... anyway, I wish I could talk to you more, but I think I've said enough.. but hry I'd be your friend... how old are you? I'm 15.. well, see ya.
2006-09-28 18:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there any clubs on campus that you'd be interested in? What about joining softball, band, basketball or dance or something like that. Try asking someone...Do you have a myspace account? Thats a good way to start a conversation. As far as style....try that whole 2 shirt thing....you know like one tank top on top of the other sort of thing, everyone seems to be doing that.
2006-09-28 18:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lacee_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with the dorkie group or goth group first, it leads to newer friends, a whole lot better then eating alone, then once your their make to a higher position, its a method thats been there for years.. who cares if you leave the friends you started with, just dont get on their bad list if you dont wanna..
i know its stressful. my best friend has to do the same thing, but as long as everyday you meet more people then youll be better off.
im graduated and livig in a dorm at nau, and i know ho hard it was, but gthen i regreted not doing something about it, and being shy...
sxtyle has no **** to do with it. ive seen people who are gothic hanging around my "wingman" and hes a jock!
2006-09-28 18:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i know what you are passing at but do not worry to much try to talk to new people but at the same time be yourself .
with the make up ideas let me just tell you a secret make sure the make up is not so high of color wear some pretty colors be natural .
2006-09-28 18:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by claudia_sadbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw. i had the same problem but now i am quite popular. Join clubs of things you like to do. That way, many people will have the same things in common as you. Try to make friends with people in your classes. OK hope i helpd.
2006-09-28 18:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by shortstuff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.Join societies/clubs etc at your student union.
2.Don't eat alone. Eat at the dorm-cafetaria or student union, even if it costs a bit more.Be sure to sit at a table with plenty of vacant chairs.
2006-09-28 18:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by ArgumentativeButNotInsulting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself!! thats key in making friends
tell a girl you like her shirt or shoes...people love compliments!
laugh at people's jokes(even their not that funny)
talk to the girls that remind you most of your friends at your old school...their bound to have something incommon w/ you.
for make-up and style ideas all i can say is
slutty=out
natural and cute=in
good luck : )
2006-09-28 18:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by ams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you! People will like you more, if you just be yourself. Good luck to you. But don't give up hope. Sometimes it takes time before others will let you into their little world. Give it time, you'll be ok.
2006-09-28 18:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by knownothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well put a smile on your face, and start approaching people in your class. at my school if your pretty you make a friends with the right people, and if your a loser then you get stuck with the losers
2006-09-28 18:41:36 · answer #11 · answered by SO SASSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋