My baby's dad and I split up so now I'm a single mother which is ok. But I'm very codependent and I loved him alot but I have a VERY hard time being alone. I want him back but I have been talking to other people....is that wrong??
2006-09-28 11:37:15 · 12 answers · asked by higginslove3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion it is wrong..... to want him back if he doesn't want to be with you any more.
It's his loss!
You will have a hard time dealing in the begining but eventually you will get through it. You don't need a man to survive, so wait and be more selective on who you use your time on. It's okay to talk to people but don't rush into anything.
Take care of yourself and your baby. Eventually the right person will come along and help you take care. Good luck!
2006-09-28 11:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me your afrade of being alone and there is nuffing worng with that but you cant spend the rest of your life feeling like you need to be with someone i felt likt that for a long time about a year ago i move to ga and my wife kickd me out for sum reason i dont want to get in to cuse realy i dont think you want to hear about that but all im saying is maybe it happend for a reason and if it was ment to be it will be if you realy love him let him go and if he loves you he will come back so dont feel bad about talkin to new people
2006-09-28 18:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to be like for awhile, missing him. If its a reasonable break up , keep moving on, try new things, like move to another aprtment, get a new job, find a hobby. Talking is good. Change new outfit, go to school. Something productive, you will find it that your already forgot about him already.
2006-09-28 18:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main fact that you said that guy split up means that it is ok for you see other guys, What i need to know is what does your ex feel abou gettin back. You need to your past stay that way.
2006-09-28 18:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by simlpeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..it's not wrong at all. It's natural to feel a little helpless...after depedning on someone for so long. But...you should move on...get to know other people. Good Luck!
2006-09-28 18:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to others is necessary for you. But why are you co-dependent? Respect yourself, like who you are whether you are in a relationship or not. Be happy with you!! Good luck to you!!
2006-09-28 18:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its hard to loose the one you love but you can do it and there is nothing wrong with trying to find that someone that will love you for you and that you can love back just keep your head up and remember love yourself and that baby!!!!
2006-09-28 18:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, it is free country, free love, free world, unless he try to date you again, you can always talk to others, you never know, u might find someone nice out there that care about you.
2006-09-28 18:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Martian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to find a new relationship, with a new man. don't forget to get child support from the baby's daddy though.
2006-09-28 18:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to talk to other people, assuming you can speak in full sentences.
2006-09-28 18:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋