The question is more relevant for couples do not agree on what is the right frequency. The problem is women often say no and men want more. I would like to know how often married couples with 5-7 yrs married life have sex?
2006-09-28 11:36:16 · 32 answers · asked by hubby_bubby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
By the way, I am the hubby.
2006-10-01 21:09:08 · update #1
married couples hardly have time to think about anything after 2-3yrs.&after kid/s.women r more emotional than men.they need to be wooed romantically.this is the surest way to have a good sexual life and it does'nt matter how many times u do but how much quality time u spend with each other
2006-10-02 18:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by atom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you the man or the wife? What is your age? More than the number of years you have been married, it is the age of your spouse and you that is more relevant here. Age determines your sexual capability to a great extent. I suppose, you can't hope to have it thrice on your suhaag raat, if you married at 50. After 5 to 7 years of married life having sex 3 to 4 times a week is considered quite healthy. But it can vary according to your mutual desires and physical ability to have sex. Also try to add some spice by changing positions, the overall atmosphere etc. which is necessary in order to arouse both the partners living together for a long time, instead of the staid old style.
2006-09-28 18:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? ok, i'm Arab and you have this all incorrect. Katib el keetab IS technically the marriage . The kitab is whilst the Imam reads the Qu'ran and there are witnesses, it is the essence of an Islamic marriage. you do not would desire to do something after the kitab which would be all of it, you may stay mutually in case you desire to attain this as quickly as you have achieved the kitab, yet considering maximum human beings also have a marriage social gathering after that then they only wait till after the social gathering, however the Islamic component of marriage is already finished. the objective of the kitab is so as which you will have an islamic way of communication and no they don't purely bypass around having intercourse and do despite they desire, is a hijabi meant to positioned on the hijab in any respect cases and in no way talk to a minimum of one yet another till after marriage? of direction not it is the objective of the kitab. i'm curious, nevertheless what's your definition of a marriage? so a ways as i'm worried in Islam a pair is marriad whilst an Imam reads, there are a minimum of two witnesses and it is not stored secretly, it is precisely what a kitab is. EDIT*** Pakistani Chap, i'm nonetheless waiting for a reaction from you, what's your definition of a marriage? the type you place it is totally insulting, yet I comprehend which you're actually not common of this subject remember so because it is excellent. yet i don't comprehend the place the concern is presented in play whilst the ktab is the marriage, how do you get marriad without doing ktab? Do pakistani's not examine Qu'ran whilst getting marriad?
2016-10-18 03:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is really a "set" amount of sex that would make your marriage "normal". It is really a question of what is satisfactory for the both of you and what you are willing to put into it. It is true that a lot of times women don't want it near as much as men do. The thing is, sometimes in a marriage, it is about giving. You might not feel 100% up to it, but if it makes him happy, you just kind of "go with it". I just think that it is a personal preference rather than worrying if you are having enough or too much for a healthy relationship. Marriage is based off of more than just sex.
2006-09-28 11:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married almost 9 yrs. and I would say we average about 7- 10 times a week. Sometimes it is a bit more, sometimes less. If you are disagreeing on the frequency, stop talking #'s, and go for quality. Nothing puts us in the mood for more, than when it is good quality stuff! :) Good luck!
2006-09-28 11:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married almost 5 yrs and have 4 kids sex in my house is maybe 2 a week if lucky!!!!!!!!!!!! however there are alot of cuddle time. sex isn't the most important thing in a marriage but it doesn't hurt. i know he love me and we dont need to show our love for one another thru sex.
2006-09-28 11:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by little momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like twice a week, and sometime that is so, but more often it is once a week. Really depends on the couple and what they are comfortable with. Once a week sounds reasonable.
2006-09-28 11:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have sex a couple of times a day. However, we only do it with each other a couple of times a week.
2006-09-28 11:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by sean_fagan_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth it's more like once a month. But in reality it should be atleast 15 times a month to keep the relationship healthy and happy.
2006-09-28 11:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 times a week
2006-09-28 11:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by Eugene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋