ok here the problem i have been dating my current girlfriend for 7 months and i think im falling for another girl and the other girl has a huge crush on me and wants me to be her man but i dont want to break my girls heart and go with the other girl and i dont know if my girlfriend is just crazy in love with me or just crazy obsessed with me and every time i say i want to break up with her she says"she refuses" that i cant break up with her and i dont want to break up with her what should i do???
2006-09-28 11:30:36 · 9 answers · asked by cobra666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow.
Refusal should be out of the question
if it's over, it's over. Tell her that.
But if you really love her, there would be nothing left in your heart to give to someone else, well, feelings of the same kaliber.
My suggestion is to take time off from both of them and think it over.
Who do you see yourself with for the longest time, happy? Or unhappy.
It's all about compatibillity.
And just follow your heart.
2006-09-28 11:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of real live temptation, my friend. Sure it's easy to remain faithful when times with your girlfriend are good and nobody else catches your attention, but times aren't always soft music & roses, and sometimes you meet someone who really makes an impression. Loyalty is only worth anything when it's up against temptation. A thousand songs have been written about that very topic, and now you know why. But you're not married to your girlfriend, so it's not like she can sue you for breaking up with her. You made a commitment when you became official, but nobody said it was a life-long commitment. That's one of the advantages of boy/girlfriend relationships - they can be ended at any time for any reason. So what should you do? Don't ask us dummy, we're total strangers. We aren't you, your girlfriend or that other girl you like, so we can't give you anything to work with. Ask yourself, and be honest when you answer.
2016-03-26 21:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were REALLY in love with your girlfriend, you wouldn't be having these feeling for someone else. Make up your mind, you'll most likely have to move on and break up with your current gf
And who is she to say you can't leave her? She sounds a bit crazy.
2006-09-28 11:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like youre in a bad place there man. There's no real advice on that no matter how many people answer. Ask yourself "I love two women, but who do I see myself wanting to marry, to have kids with, and to grow old with?". You may be in love with both women, but who do you think feels absolutely right for you?
2006-09-28 11:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude if u dont want to be there than dont be but it sounds like what ever u do some one is gong to get hurtu cant have two that just aint wright u need to pick one and even though u care about them both u have to do what u!!!need to do for your self do what is in your heart
2006-09-28 11:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stab her haha jk. Just stop contacting her if u dont really luv her. theere is no point
2006-09-28 12:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by dunhate235 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how does yur gurl act??? if she acts all over you, get rid of her, u need your space!!!!! go with the other girl, and see what its like, if she gives u a little space, she culd be the one 4 u!!! i learned to give guys there space!!
2006-09-28 11:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the person who's better-looking.
2006-09-28 11:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by Will 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say. " we are done" . period and go for the other one..
i never knew you can refuse to someone that is DUMPING U~!
2006-09-28 11:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by ILIKETOPARTYY~! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋