My gf works hard and has to put up with a lot of **** from home. But now all she does is sleep. She comes to over to mine, or we go out for a meal and when we get back she just head straight to bed and sleeps. I going back to uni tomorow and rather then just being with each other and talking codshite or other stuff im on poxy yahoo answers! So my q is this whats your opinon about the situation?
2006-09-28 11:22:36 · 12 answers · asked by annubis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let the girl sleep. Can't you see she's stressed and overworked? Give her a nice massage. Tell her you love her and hold her until she falls asleep. Quit thinking about yourself.
2006-09-28 11:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually in the same situation with my fiance. He works ALL the time and has to commute to come see me--he lives 2 hours away. I try to be understanding, but it's hard when you only have a few hours together. The best you can do is make the most of the time you have when she's awake--and maybe "accidentally" order her a ton of coffee or Mountain Dew during dinner!
2006-09-28 18:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of reasons why she's acting like this. She could be severly depressed. She could have mono. It's also possible that all the stress that she's normally under is taking a huge toll on her body and mind. Is it possible it's just that she's on her period? Another thing could be that she's anemic. Maybe she needs to go to the doctor to check it out.
2006-09-28 18:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to her, may be she needs to go to the doctor. sit and talk to her, tell her that you are hoping to spend quality time with her, but she goes right off to sleep, ask her how is she really feeling. tell her that you are very concern about her, ask her what can you do to help her? It is nice to see that you care. I hope that after you have a talk with her, that you will know what direction you will have to go!
2006-09-28 18:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like depression to me. You will want to be honest with her about your feelings, but let her know that you will support her and that you understand what she is going through. You might want to see if there is anything you can do to make life a little easier for her.
2006-09-28 18:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our opinion doesn't matter. you have to decide how important she is to you and what your feelings dictate. I suggest you have a true conversation and reach a meeting of the minds.
Ultimately its up to you.
2006-09-28 18:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is either exhausted or depressed. often, people who are depressed sleep constantly. Poor thing. That's my opinion.
2006-09-28 18:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she sick, or preggers??? It's not normal wanting to sleep all the time. Talk to her.
2006-09-28 18:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that yoiu should tell her how you feel and stick with her and be supportive
2006-09-28 18:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by ILOVEMYBOYFRIEND 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY IN SCHOOL...TAKE A SPELLING COURSE. IF YOU SPEAK TO HER THE WAY YOU WRITE..NO WONDER SHE SLEEPS ALL THE F**G TIME
2006-09-28 18:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋