I have a guy friend, we've never dated or discussed dating because he was dating someone else. At the end of their relationship he started asking me whether I would ever get into a relationship with him. I said no your dating someone, why would I.
He stopped talking to me for about 3 weeks after I said that and is now ringing me, messaging me and emailing me constantly because he's broken up with his girl friend. He mesaages me and sends me some of the raunchiest message because he wants to have a sexual relationship with me and nothing else. Which is not what I want. Which I also spelt out from the start that I wanted FRIENDSHIP. What do I say?
2006-09-28 11:16:34 · 11 answers · asked by Butterflies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone for your help, I've started ignoring him I told him he had one more chance to listen to reason he didn't take it so I told him to have a nice life.
Thanks again your lifesavers.
2006-09-28 16:42:38 · update #1
I think he's overstepped his bounds. He's decided to use you as a sex rag since he's needy right now. Just dump him altogether.
2006-09-28 11:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you're going to have to keep repeating yourself about only wanting to be just friends until he gets it or you get tired of be a broken record. My advice is tell him to find someone else to be his rebound and let him know that the messages arent impressing you, and ask him why he thinks its alright to use a friend in this manner which shows absolutely no respect for you or your friendship. You have to make a decision on how long you want to repeat yourself to keep this friendship going.
2006-09-28 12:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by morticiamoodyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy sounds like he's losing his mind. stay away from him. since you've made things clear that you two are just friends, you don't have anything else to explain. also, don't give him false hope, a lot of girls still tease guys even though they know they are not planning to have any relationships with the guys.
2006-09-28 11:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by 21questions 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep telling the bozo til he get's it. Get rough about it if you have to. You don't need that kind of garbage in your life. And do NOT give in to the guy, either. That would be bad for you.
2006-09-28 11:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you aren't interested in that type of relationship & if he doesn't stop asking for sex there will be no type of relationship. If he still hassles you, threaten and follow thru on a restraining order.
2006-09-28 11:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its sounds like you have said it all. If you have spelled things out for him and he is not paying attention, then you should cut off communications with him.
2006-09-28 11:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel if he does not like it and keeps trying to get other things he is not worth it
2006-09-28 11:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by babyskit5683 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you want to stay friends. And if he can't accpet that answer then you shouldn't even be friends with him. He's just using you.
2006-09-28 11:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by hippie_at_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel this person you don't want to ruin what you guys have by doing whatever it is that he wants to do if he doesn't understand drop him and don't talk to him then i bet he'll get the point
2006-09-28 11:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by beachluver1432 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go jump in the damn lake!
2006-09-28 11:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by Putt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋