I had sex with my best guy friend and then he said "nothing happened" i mean i was already in love with him from the beginning and this made my love for him even more. I dont want it to be "nothing happened" i want it to be something happened and i dont no how to tell him that. He already new I liked him and I hate this plez give advice if u have it
2006-09-28 11:01:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...I think he's prolly jus like alotta the other guys. They act like their all luvey duvey ( idk if he did that w/ u...im jus sayin n general), then when u have sex with them, thats the end of everything. They act like "nothing happened", exactly like u said.
Um, i dont know how to put it, but u should or can still be his friend, but the loving part...u should try to get over that. Lil by lil...ya kno.
2006-10-01 12:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by jaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey - sounds like what was "making love" to you meant nothing to him. If he really was your friend and knew you had feeling for him that he couldn't return, then it was cruel of him to sleep with you. If he said anything to mislead you, to make you think that he might care for you, then he is stupid and careless as well.
I'm so sorry, sweetie - I've been in the exact same boat and it is going to hurt A LOT. and it's going to get way worse before it gets better. But if he knew how you felt and just refused to admit it and slept with you anyway, then he isn't worth your love.
Tell him he should have known better and that what he did was wrong and unforgivable - and karma will come around. Then don't say anything more to him, write all your feelings in a journal instead... it will help you clarify how you feel and help you heal.
my sympathies....
2006-09-28 18:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not your friend and he doesn't care about you. So ditch the loser and find a new friend that won't take advantage of you like he did. I can honestly say that the only reason why he was your friend in the first place was to get some play. Now he's got it and he's gone. Hell, your lucky he'll still even talk to you. And, no, honey, that wasn't love, that was infatuation. If it was love you'd still be together. This is why teenage sex is not a good thing on Marthe Stewarts list.
2006-09-28 18:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by PasoBrio13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi I'm chuy what i have to tell you is like this if he said no it never or nothing happen the that's your sigh to really think if that is a person that you want to be with if he don't want you know he wont later on he just wants sex I'm a guy i should know that k good luck
2006-09-28 18:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by chuy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh boy, do you have problems. Looks like all he wanted was that tang. I hope at least you used protection.
Anyhow, just tell him how you feel about it. If there was, in fact, something, he will let you know. But be careful. He could be just leading you on for more because he knows it will be easy.
2006-09-28 18:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wowo.. this is a tricky one. talk to him about how you feel.. and if he is still stuck on the nothing.. i am sorry but he was not the one.. next time be very careful who you share yourself with..it can hurt really bad when they don't look ta this the same way...
2006-09-28 18:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by cristinamendez02 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would keep my cool and try to be a friend and move on his feelings for you aren't as serious or he wouldn't have acted like that after the two of you had sex
2006-09-28 18:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Hope W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well honey, welcome to the world of men. It was special for you, but sex for him. Get used to it. That is one reason you should wait to have sex until you are married...... He knew you liked him, so he went for it and got it. I'm sorry to say it, but you've been had, in more ways than one... I'm sorry. We aren't all that way, but most are.
2006-09-28 18:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First how old are you? You just got used. Sorry
2006-09-28 18:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Face it - he wasn't interested, he isn't interested now and he may have just used you for sex.
Sorry.
2006-09-28 18:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋