Okay is it wrong to go out with a guy just to be nice?! I mean he's a good friend and all and some how I ended up going out with him and I don't want to but like he REALLY likes me but I just want to be friends but I don't know how to say it or should I just suck it up and stay with him beacuse he is like following me everywhere and he is really nice and all but i don't know can you please help?!
2006-09-28 10:44:50 · 12 answers · asked by Kathryn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay sometime you have to tell him the truth you should say that you guys will still be really good friends just nothing more and if he values your relationship than he will agree!
2006-09-28 10:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by cassandra o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let him down easy. Say something like your not ready for a relationship and you just want to be friends because your hurting him more by leading him on. You need to nip it in the bud soon because the longer you wait the more damaging it could be to your friendship and to him. Oh, and next time don't go out with someone just to be nice because then you get put in the situation of letting them down which always makes you feel bad at the end!!!
2006-09-28 17:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Trina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-28 17:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lead him on - that's not fair to either of you. Talk to him and tell him that you'd rather just be friends. But make sure you follow-through with your statement and still hang out with him. Don't say you want to be friends to "let him down easy." That's a cop-out.
2006-09-28 17:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clarify what it is that he's going to get from you .tell him that your date is casual and your just friends it's not really smart to lead a guy on because then you can create a stalker and trust you don't want tha drama
2006-09-28 17:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by nealy pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. He's not Mr. Right, but if you want him to be Mr. Right Now, let him. But one day you'll have to tell him the truth.
2006-09-28 19:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo date someone you are attracted to & vice versa.
2006-09-28 17:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a puppy don't treat him like one
2006-09-28 17:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i dont got a soultion but all i can say is that u shouldnt have gone out with him if u didnt like him like that. now u have to face breaking up wit him. well.............................GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-28 17:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by DJ Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him thanks for the date(s) but that you want to see other people as well and leave it at that.
2006-09-28 17:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋