Yeah...I hate the fact that one day I am going to have to live my life without my parents. I'm not a kid, teen. You can say I am about 21 or so. :P
My mom and I are very close and I think I will feel very isolated from the world and won't want to do anything at all. It's just that she has always been there for me, she is also good company, and she's my last resort.
Anybody who has lost a parent/someone close to you...how do you deal and try to live the rest of your life positively?
2006-09-28 10:39:25 · 14 answers · asked by AWorldThatNeedsToCalmDown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
why are you dwelling on this now? Enjoy her now, appreciate the relationship you have with her. Tell her what she means to you. Then, when that time does come, you will be sad, but have no regrets.
2006-09-28 10:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that is something I have been trying to figure that same thing out since my momma died ......she has only been gone a little over a year....Living life positively wow its hard and I am still going through the grieving process right now.... I was very very close to her.......my whole life revolved around her and everything she was involved in so was I (pretty much)
But life does go on and it is very hard but I hope some day i will find the peace I need.....I know I will see her again someday when I get to heaven and she will be waiting there right next to Jesus with her arms open wide....By the way i am only 24
2006-09-28 10:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's sick, don't worry about this yet. You probably still have many long decades together as a family. If you obsess about it now you will only cast a shadow over the time you have.
Yes, it will happen someday, and yes, it will suck beyond anything you've ever imagined. But you get through it. One terrible day at a time. And you hold on to the fact that she loved you and wanted, more than anything, for you to be happy. So you give yourself permission to be happy again, and after a year or so, you actually start to feel happy. You'll love all the memories you have, and feel like she is always with you. It will be okay.
2006-09-28 10:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered it your self by being close with your mom you create good and bad times, these things will always be with you. memories you hold close in your heart that is how life goes on. noone is promised tomorrow so you live for the day. telling the people you care about the most that you love them.Then with time the pain goes away somewhat, I have lost my dad, mom, and little sister, so i have experienced the pain, It is a stepping stone in life you mature and learn as you go.
2006-09-28 10:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by peanutbulls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do, unfortunately life goes on. I lost my mom when I was 22 & I felt like the world was going to end but fourtanetly I have a big family (there are 9 of us) & we helped each other thru it. You just have to take it one day at a time sometimes I even dealt with it minute by minute.
2006-09-28 10:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep her close in your heart and remember all the good times that you had. On her birthday do what I do for my deceased mom I buy a helium balloon and I say a prayer for her and wish her a Happy Birthday and let the balloon go.............I do it for Mother's Day too. When your alone or sad talk to her you can ber she is listening, just because she is not here with you she is up in heaven watching you. Don't worry one day you will both be together happy again................
2006-09-28 10:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels terrible when someone in your family dies.One day my cousin his name is Anthony but they call him Tae he had just turned 22 and he bought him a motorcycle and one day he asked me did i want to go for a ride i said i will wait til tomorrow so the next day i woke up and i was talking to my mother about my cousin and she told me he died i did not know what to do.Out of the whole family me,his brother,and his mother(my aunt) was the ones crying the most know i do not like motorcycle's I HATE THEM.
2006-09-28 10:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by badbitch101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are praying person. That is always the best way to make it through. There will be dreams and events as well as holidays and birthdays. So much willremind you. Hang in there when it happens. They will be in a better place than you are.
2006-09-28 10:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still haven't lost my parents yet, thank God, but everyone is going to die and people should just try to be nice also live this life that we have. Also stop thinking of sad things.
2006-09-28 10:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by car4423 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get through it one day at a time. Somehow you will manage. Now put the thought aside and enjoy your time with her and be happy you have such a great mom.
2006-09-28 11:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never lost a parent.. but also think about this.. and no death of a parent is easy at all. but God heals all wounds and you will have a nice stronf family of your own to help you through this!! God is the answer!
2006-09-28 10:55:06 · answer #11 · answered by cristinamendez02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋