Last night my bf calls me and says he's going hunting and then to the bar to play pool with his buddies. I said OK. Well then my best friend calls and wants me to go to watch strippers at the local bar. I go and when I get home he's not there. I told him this morning where I had gone last night and now he's mad. He didn't get home until 1:00am and I was home at 11:30pm I wasn't mad and I dont think he should be . What do you think?
2006-09-28 10:37:06 · 16 answers · asked by to_sassy4_u 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you did nothing wrong ...he's probably just pissy cuz you had a good time instead of sitting home worried and waiting for him
2006-09-28 10:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by earthlove32 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to work as a male stripper, and as a bouncer at a female strip club, and I will tell you this: Women get out of control! There is a lot more contact between male strippers and patrons than female strippers and patrons. Maybe your b/f knows this and that is why he is mad. More than likely however, his insecurities are coming to the surface. I have no problem with my wife going to watch strippers, if I did; number one I would be a hypocrit, and number two it would mean that I didn't trust her. You did nothing wrong. I suggest talking to him and finding out exactly why he is angry.
2006-09-28 17:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by jaynowa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have very delicate egos.
They think their women shouldn't be interested in any other naked man but himself.
But just wait till a buddy has a Stag Party with a stripper and watch him start talking out of the other side of his mouth.
Set the ground rules now. Whats good for the goose, is good for the gander, or on your way!
2006-09-28 17:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all did you tell him that your plans were changing and where you were going?? If he told you where he was going and that his plans were changing he probably expects the same from you!! Have you been to a strip club before that he was aware of? If yes and he wasn't mad than I would say disregard it. If yes but he doesn't know about it then you are trying to be sneaky. If no you have never been than ask yourself why now? Find out exactly why he is upset and go from there!!
2006-09-28 17:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Misty K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been their done that, he is mad because he thinks he can go out and have fun and you shouldn't do things without him. You and I both know that girls would be around hm and guys around you and tell him he should trust you and you weren't keeping anything from him. Also, if he can have a guys night out why not you to.
2006-09-28 17:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by nicole t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would be mad if my bf went to a stripperclub... wont be very respectfull towards me!! i think i would bite his head of!!! And why would you be mad at him for going to a bar to play pool with his friends until 1 am???
2006-09-28 17:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm that none of u should have been mad....it was a fun night for both in ur own way...so whats the problem?
2006-09-28 17:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by daia750 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he mad? that u didn't tell him u were going somewhere or is it because he knows u saw some strippers?
2006-09-28 17:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by blue suede shooz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male or female strippers?
Female strippers.. maybe he was mad you didn't go with him...
Male strippers.... maybe he's just jealous.....
Either way he needs to get over himself
2006-09-28 17:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by SassySista 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Think his precious ego was bruised and that he should get over it, if the relationship ends over this then it wasn't a stable one from the start.
2006-09-28 17:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by kizzykay86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋