My friend said that it will be hard for her to get married because she have 4 kids and that its would be easier for me because I have one. I want to know from guys does it really matter how many kids a woman have before you ask her out or to even considered marriage? I would like to also add that she is sweet and just because she has 4 kids and 3 baby daddies doesn't make her a hoe.
2006-09-28 10:33:37 · 12 answers · asked by Apple 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...I have to start out bying saying that this is my opinion!!! I would date a woman with children, but there's a big "IF". I would ask myself if all the children have the same father or are there different fathers involued? I prefer the one that had 1 father. Does the children accept me as your partner? I hope so, cause if they don't there's a high possibility that there will be trouble, cause they can say so and so did this and that. Then there's disciplining the children....but over all I really need to weigh the different options that I have...the pros and the cons.
2006-09-28 11:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At face value, a single mom with one kid has a better chance of getting married before a the single mom with 4 kids.
However, if you were to level the playing field and let the men get to know each woman first. Then you might be surprised. the mom with 4 kids could completely sweep the men off their feet and have an easier time getting married.
It all depends on the guy and how much time he has to get to know the single mother. As they say, love sees no boundaries.
2006-09-28 10:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to assert yet i think of the alternative is genuine, we tend to steer away from single mothers. that's quite the case if the guy already has journey relationship single mothers. in my opinion i don't steer away from them yet on an identical time i be attentive to it makes it greater stable so i'm greater frightened approximately it. not because of the fact I hate little ones or look down on her yet once you're being useful approximately it, little ones will make each thing of relationship greater complicated. the main extreme undertaking to make certain is that if she would be in a position to locate time for you and the toddler(s). not basically earlier each thing the two(because of the fact maximum will earlier each thing) yet additionally as quickly as the relationship has stronger slightly. If she has a hundred% custody, youthful toddler(s), and no unfastened toddler-sitter then there is only approximately no probability that's going to artwork. If she has unfastened toddler sitting or shared custody - according to probability. even in spite of the indisputable fact that the daddy nonetheless being interior the photograph could have that's own set of issues.
2016-10-01 11:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by huenke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well look at it this way. Would you be with a man that has children by another woman. It's just as hard to find someone that wouldn't have a problem with that situation. Usually look for people that can't have children or infertile.
2006-09-28 10:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ready made family so they say ,problem is with single mums when you have a arguement over the kids you get in it the face they are not your kids
2006-09-28 10:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by johnny boy rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is right. there are not many men that are going to be OK with a single mom of 4. there is just no time for togetherness. One you can get by, 4? thats just too many.
2006-09-28 10:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Bistro 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"just because she has 4 kids and 3 baby daddies doesn't make her a hoe."
Well yeah, actually it does, and a stupid ho at that for not using birth control.
And I don't date women with kids, regardless of how many.
2006-09-28 10:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly if I were stil single I wouldnt date anyone who already had 4 kids.
1 kid possibly but even then I'd still be hesitant...... but that's just me.
2006-09-28 10:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by RedEye 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think it's hard for me to accept and take care a kid that's not my own blood, not to mention 4. think it like this, kids have their own attitudes and create a lot of hassles. if they're your own, you're somewhat telling yourself that they're yours and they're your responsibilities, but if the kids are just going to make your life more difficult, plus the fact that their not yours, then it's hard.
2006-09-28 10:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by 21questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but it would make the relationship more difficult, with all them daddies.
2006-09-28 10:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋