i need advise quick
2006-09-28 10:15:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP pushing yourself on him. Give him some room girl. Don't be so pushy and needy. Guys HATE that. Do your own thing and lead your own life. When you are unavailable, he will BE BEGGING YOU FOR A HUG!!!!!
2006-09-28 10:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think it depends how long youve been together, maybe hes just not that affectionate and doesnt see it as an issue or even entered his head to hug. but if he used to be a hugger and give you lots of phisical attention like this and his behaviours suddenly changed then maybe you should start to worry, Whatever his reasons for this lack of physical contact with you, you can only change it or understand it by talking to him. explain you need that closeness of a hug (or however you feel) listen to his answers and decide if he will change or if you can live with a relationship without much phisical contact. but you must talk to him if it bothers you that much! goodluck
2006-09-28 17:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by luci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why. Is it the place where you are ? Too private? Too public? He's not really your boyfirend? He is too attracted to you and wants to keep things at a safe level? He hates hugging?
2006-09-28 17:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, make puppy-dog eyes at him and hug him yourself to show him what you want?
I don't know what else to tell you. He's (most likely) not a mind reader.
2006-09-28 17:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUG HIM! He may be shy or don't know how to approach him..if he gives you a weird look or acts all aloof then I don't think he is serious with you.
2006-09-28 17:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ellise T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the Goddess Angel, find out why or give him some time to get used to it.
2006-09-28 17:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by Angel of Music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have trouble showing their feelings. Get used to it. He may come around in time, but you can't force it out of him.
2006-09-28 17:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound too good. Try hugging him by surprise!
2006-09-28 17:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's embarrassed, or afraid he'll look like a wimp to his mates.
Don't worry about it. All too soon he will be wanting to give you more than you'll be wanting him to.
2006-09-28 17:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so next time u get hold of him and give him a good bear hug...hy dont demand from others see what u can do for others and miracally it will coem to u too...........
2006-09-28 17:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by Vinny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋