I just started going out with a guy, but I've never really had a boyfriend, so I don't know what to do. I'm really shy and I get nervous extremely easily. What should I do to make a good relationship with him?
2006-09-28 10:01:15 · 18 answers · asked by aeronpink13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Treat him, right now, just as a friend.
There's no pressure on you or him. Just get to know each other! Don't be nervous--he already likes you! Don't be afraid to talk with him. From someone who was shy, just be honest. Once you treat him like a friend and not a boyfriend (for right now), you're going to get to know each other better.
2006-09-28 10:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do to have a good relationship is to stop worrying and thinking about ways to have a good relationship. Most relationships don't move beyond the second or third date because one of the two people were not comfortable, acting as themselves, or they tried too hard. The fact that you ask this question at all tells me that you have observed others in bad relationships and are now afraid that you will walk into one as well. The truth is that you will have many bad relationships in your life; that's just the way life is, but it only takes one good relationship to make the journey worthwhile. The best thing to do is to stop worrying about it, stop trying so hard, and realize that the advice that one person may give you may not work for you the way it worked for them so stop trying to research relationships and just be yourself.
2006-09-28 10:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by achristian520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up to him. Think about the reasons why you are getting so nervous and take a breather. Its ok! Don't worry. If you really like him and he really likes you, then it will work out alright.
2006-09-28 10:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice you need to have a good relationship with someone is to take it slow and be yourself. Let things happen naturally. If you force them, they will not be as good as they could be. Lots of luck. Although, if you be yourself, you won't need it.
2006-09-28 10:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and very thing well be fine or if not you'll find out. It's life, you not have to act like others cause different people= different reactions.
2006-09-28 10:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is not sex. Though most guys may disagree.Just be honest and true to him and he will be with you for a long time.
2006-09-28 10:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, sweetheart. If he can't accept that your shy, maybe he's not for u! Good Luck!
2006-09-28 10:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think about being friends first and doing friend things....you will grow to like each other more
2006-09-28 10:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st date:get to know him
2nd date get to know him better
3rd date:you should feel comfortable with him
ta-dah
2006-09-28 10:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relax, buddy! if he's a cool guy it'll work. if he's not a cool guy, then sucks to his assmar. ya dig?
be coooooooooooooooooooooooool
2006-09-28 10:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋