my boyfriend recently told me that my best friend called him all of the time and talked **** about me like that i'm talking to some other guy and i dont really wanna be with him anyway and that all i do is flirt with all of my guy friends and that she even tried to have sex with him once now my friend says that he always called her asking questions about me and she never got into detail and she never talked **** about me and that she'll even show me her phone bill to show who called who...who should i believe? or what should i do?
2006-09-28 09:55:43 · 15 answers · asked by KrIsTyN 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like they are both lying. Dump them both and start new friendships.
2006-09-28 09:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you trust either of them very much. Do you have a problem trusting others? Or is it just those two? You could look at both their phone bills (preferably in a location where they were both at also) or you might consider getting a new boy friend AND a new girlfriend! (you sound pretty young-don't waste a lot of your life on people you don't consider trustworthy) You didn't say why he volunteered this info (i.e. were you perhaps having an argument about this girl, or other girls in general?). She, however purports to have hard evidence....if you examine your own feelings you may find the answer there.
2006-09-28 10:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Witchyluck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! That's a big mess! I just dealt with this same kind of problem last week.
If your friend has had any type of crush on him before or currently, you might want to check that phone bill and maybe check your boyfriend's phone bill too.
Your in my prayers!
2006-09-28 10:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Angel of Music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would do is see the phone bill because most friends will do that because they know that u will buy that they did not call yr boyfriend and just to make sure and not be taking sides check yr boyfriends phone bill to so you wan't be doing the wrong thing just to make sure you got all the facts right.
2006-09-28 10:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Simona P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take her up on her offer and look at the phone bill. If the BF is lying, I'd want to know why he's trying to come between you and your friend.
2006-09-28 09:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by earthlove32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men come and go, friendships are forever. Unless she ireally did this, then you need to kick her to the curb. If you're boyfriend is lying, then he needs to be kicked to the curb. Either way, someone is hiding something here, and you have to get to the bottom of it, or it will nag you forever.
2006-09-28 09:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls get more attached to guys they hang around......ie your boyfriend that you and you friend see a lot. But, I am not saying that she did it. If you truly have a great friendship with her then there is no denying it
2006-09-28 09:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine5674 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to both of them together! The truth is going to come out one way or the other! Good luck!
2006-09-28 09:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the phone record. If it's him, he probably thinks you spend too much time with your friend and he is jealous OR doesn't trust you at all. If it is her, she is probably trying to break you two up b/c she wants him.
2006-09-28 10:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's too short to be Fuc*ing around with who rang who.Ditch em both !
2006-09-28 10:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by estranged_73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋