theres this guy who asked me out and im not sure if i should say yes.last year he treated his girlfriend like crap and kissed another girl behind her back.i told him that i wasnt sure if i wanted to go out with him because of that but he said that he changed a lot over the summer.another thing is that he is very flirty.he flirts with a lot of the girls..but im not sure if hes just flirty because hes single or what.im confused about what to do.i told him that we would have to get to know each other better and that i would have to ask his ex if it was ok with her because we are somewhat friends.i still have a little bit of time but i need an answer quick.help!
2006-09-28 09:48:03 · 11 answers · asked by mzmatherz69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked one of my closest friends for advice on it...she said that i should try it out and give it a week too..
2006-09-28 09:57:27 · update #1
Advice: Never date guys who make you feel confused, unsure, or guys who have an ex you need to get permission from. Never date guys who treat girls like crap. Never date guys who are overly flirty with other girls because sometimes those other girls take it seriously. If this guy makes you feel THIS confused and you haven't even dated him yet- don't bother unless you want more of the same. He's soooooo not worth it. Say no.
2006-09-28 09:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you gonna marry the guy or do you wanna just go out and have a good time with a guy you want to go out with? Don't worry about what MIGHT HAPPEN or WHAT IF's you'll never live life or experience anything if you do that. SAY YES!
2006-09-28 16:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ Violet Pearl....if the guy is giving you this many doubts and this amount of stress and confusion BEFORE you date - that's only a sign of a future relationship full of the same. Say no gracefully and bow out
2006-09-28 17:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by earthlove32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind a guy that will flirt with other girls and you're not the jealous type, then go for it. Otherwise, don't.
Be honest with yourself when answering this. If you have doubts, which it seems you do, then say no.
2006-09-28 16:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Eric F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out for a little bit a trial period but don't let him know it's a trial and go out with him and promise yourself that if a week goes by and he hasn't stopped flirting you'll dump him.
2006-09-28 16:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by babigrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible he's changed. you can just take it really slow and judge him by how he treats you and others now. what's in the past is LONG gone
2006-09-28 16:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say yes!!
you dont want him to cheat on you.
he may be a "changed" guy but he will always have a bad girl record.
2006-09-28 16:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-28 16:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by thedeliciousone14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him Perhaps.
2006-09-28 16:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all up to you. If you feel up to it, then do it...
2006-09-28 16:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Juzu 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋